Home defense, software over hardware

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When the question comes up about what type of firearm is best for home defense you can choose between handgun, pistol or shotgun. Before discussing about what the best options is you first need to do a personal inventory of your needs and situation.

We teach that there are basically three types of situations where you would be most likely to need a firearm for home defense.

Bump in the night- the situation most people think of when the topic of home defense comes up.

The open door- when you arrive home and find that your front door is open, but no obvious signs of force. If there are obvious signs of force entry the best advice is to move to a position of safety and call the police. But if there isn’t you need to evaluate the totality of the situation and decide whether you think you forgot to close the door and make entry, or is there something else that leads you to believe it is the real thing and call the police.

Event in/around the home- this covers any other situation. Maybe you and your spouse are watching TV when your daughter’s violent ex-boyfriend begins to bang on your door. Or there late at night there is a loud knock at your door and you look out to see a neighbor covered in blood from a domestic assault with her husband walking up behind her. This actually happened to me.

When it comes to the bump in the night the vast majority of folks say they will grab a pistol or shotgun first. The pros of the pistol are that if it has a dedicated light it can allow you to open and close door, or even have a cell phone in your hand. The maneuverability of the pistol can also be a bad thing since its handiness may encourage someone without the proper training to go looking for the threat instead of barricading yourself in a room.

The shotgun along with the rifle are very formidable choices for home defense as well but have their own pros and cons even before you talk about which is better and the ammunition to load them with. The pros for the long gun include increased accuracy and sometimes round count. When equipped with a dedicated light they allow you easily illuminate your threat. The first con is that since they require two hands they may make it hard to talk on the phone or take physical control of family members. Clearing even your own house with a long gun without lots of practice can also be problematic. Things like leading into room with the muzzle and banging into things giving away your position can also be an issue. Another issue especially if you will be descending stairs is your footwear; do you make a habit of donning proper footwear when you pick up your firearm? Envision your heart pounding in your chest as you begin down your hard wood steps with your shotgun in hand to investigate a noise with your long gun. Your steps are steep so you usually use one or both of the railings when walking downstairs, but now with the shotgun occupying your hands your slip because you are barefooted or wearing socks. At least with a pistol you have one hand to catch yourself, or maybe not if you have a light in the other hand.

You arrive home after a late after work dinner party to find your front door ajar. What do you do? Chances are you will not have access to a long gun unless you get one from inside. Does your state allow CCW? Or even if it does did you leave your pistol home since you are not allowed to have it on company property. Is there an intruder still in the house? And if there is, were all of your firearms secured. This situation happened to at lease one young officer who arrived home with his young daughter in his arms and could hear the intruder in his bedroom. His pistol was un-secure on his dresser instead of on his hip. The intruder heard him come in the front door and fled out of a back window without his pistol.

Late at night, but before bedtime you hear a frantic knock at the door and look out to see your neighbor. When you open the first door you know focus on her head that is gushing blood. Something behind her catches your eye and you realize it is her husband walking across the street. He is covered in blood as well with a hammer in his hand. Do you wear your pistol at home? Do you even have a firearm on the first floor?

All of three types of situations are not far fetched and have happened to many of us or those we know. You can see in each where both handguns and long guns have pros and cons and that when someone asks “what is the best gun for home defense” we may need more information before arguing about caliber and effects on gelatin and drywall.
 
Handgun.

From the time I was born, I was a target.
Kidnap me, and this would force others to do things.

Software, not Hardware is what we call it now.
Back then it was Mental, Not Physical.

My concerns have always been entering or exiting a structure, ADLs ( activities of daily living) and answering the door.

While it is suggested a kid learn to shoot with a .22 single shot rifle, Mentor & Elders started me out on handguns.
I started handgun at age 3, rifle at age 4 shotgun at age 5.

While I had my very own revolver at birth, and gained some others, at age 8 I was given a Beretta, small caliber, semi auto , to carry concealed.
Which I did.
I also knew how to shoot revolvers that were in vehicles, homes, offices and other places.

Handgun was the always firearm platform.
I was young when I gave the heads up to a armed robbery attempt, and took cover as I was taught to do.
While handguns stopped that threat, there were both shotguns, and rifles in that setting.
Before the VCAs were removed, I got a long, hard close look at them, the gun shots and was mentored in all this.

C.R.Sam said it best - One never knows the where or when of next encounter.


Platform:
Easy.
Five platforms fit 97% of all hands.
Ammo.
Easy.
I and mine chose Hardball in 45ACP and 9mm, and LSWC in dedicated .38spl, .357, .44 Spl, and .44 Mag.

Our environments were not like normal folks. Define "normal" as I still do not know what the definition is.

Glass deflects, and since I know about using glass, be it one way mirrors, aong with metal decorative mesh and other things, the shooting lane might be taking a shot through that glass/mesh.
Backstop was tested, and it might be steel plate , or even those decorative glass bricks.

Low Pressure rounds, heck we did not see a need for "hi pressure" or today "+P" rounds.
Low Pressure such as dedicated .38spl, 45ACP, .44 spl and in standard form, will stop threats.
Hearing is a weapon, and being able to communicate is a useful tool.
Unlease a .40 cal ( a solution to a non existent problem) indoors and you might not hear instructions, or the racking a shotgun letting you know where a VCA is.

.357s are LOUD when unleased in a house, or motor vehicle.
That said, my car gun was a .44 mag, with reloads of hard cast.
Again, me and mine had our environments, and VCAs unlike most, such as Professionals.
You are running down the road, and trying to be run off the road, being side swiped, hit from the year...etc, with shots fired , a handgun, with lessons and sets ups ( ya'll call this training and stages) in various driving skills and shooting weak handed, come in handy.
Stop that car(s) from what they are doing!

Jello was for eating, still is.
WE shot dirt, kept bullets, kept notebooks and compared bullets taken from animals felled while hunting, and pest control.

We shot those things in ADLs to know. Such as backstops, or vehicles like the ones we drove, the glass, or the steel plate added to a vehicle to keep incoming rounds at bay.

WE did not have teh Intraw3bz, instead Investigate & Verify.

Long guns were easy.
Model 94 in 30-30 , Model 70 in '06 were favored.
Model 94 carbine just flat conceals, handy to tote, works strong or weak hand, and easy to keep fed.

Shotgun- I run slugs.

I may need to punch through that glass, and I want as little deflection can.
Lessons and Set ups included having to take that head shot, not face on, instead angled, as one of us had a gun to head, knife at throat.

Then again maybe the VCA is using cover, and I need to punch through a kitchen cabinet, or something. My largest target presentation might just be a knee, or foot.
I own that knee or foot with a shotgun slug.

How raised-what you do.

Mental aspect is the key.
Giving the Perceptions one need to give for tasks.
Blending in.
Early Signals
Reading the room.
Lessons, Setups, Codewords...

-Hardware part is not that big of a deal. Gun fit to shooter for task.
One of the five platforms will work.
-Handgun on person always, extras handy.
-Long guns for settings, and just knowing how to be one with the gun.

Can't buy it- gotta earn it.
 
investigating the "bump"

Ok.

so my girlfriend and i have developed a "bump in the night" plan where we would fall back to the master bedroom(most likely we're already there). i would grab my moss 500, take a position at the door to hallway, and she would grab her .357 and the phone and stand away from the door. there we would wait and if someone came to the top of the stairs at the other end of the hallway, i would have them in my sights. but suppose after the initial "bump" we hear or see nothing? could have been the cat, or someone outside. (we live in baltimore city in a row house on an alley- there's always hookers, druggies and kids outside making noise. sometimes sounds like its inside.) at some point i would have to go down the hallway to investigate. should i take the 12 gauge or grab my 1911? the hallway is very narrow. the stairway is perforated steel- very open, so you can see straight down to the first floor. but, there are railings that would get in the way of the 20" barrel. and, i cant see the entire first floor unless i walk halfway down the stairs, where i'm clearly visible to someone hiding on the first floor. any suggestions?
 
I hesitate to discuss home intrusion scenarios. But will take a stab in general terms.

We run a code word. If there is a challenge made, there needs to be a counter made. If no counter, well... it's show time.

Bump in the night means nothing to us until something breaks.

Knocks with a variety of situations that may present to us are the most dangerous because trickery is sometimes used to gain entry into a residence.

One common example is stranger knocks and claims to be lost. LEO's are called particularly if it is truly a stranger to us. If both are home, one is armed and ready covering the other. If one is home when stranger knocks, that one is armed and ready in a designated area/phone to LEO's without answering door.

LEO's understand our home and the weapons within it. Should they be called to come because we are intruded or otherwise seeing signs of a break in, they will do what they need to do. It will be a very fluid situation very fast.

Ammunition is carefully selected to be short ranged and slug type only.

Finally but not least. In our home, there is a strict "Plan of Day" covering the entire 24 hours of future daily. Should something develop to devitate from the POD, communications is essential. For example one of us working overtime or arriving home earlier.

We drill together, shoot together and do all things with the weapons together trying to be learning about each other and eyeball each other for mistakes or things to improve on.

When we run a drill, one takes the role of intruder and attempts to advance/locate the other very quickly. Several runs of these drills have revealed to us much about our flaws. For example.. it takes about 14 seconds from any hatch to any part of the home.

We never pull surprise drills on each other. Being groggy with sleep at 4 am is not the time to be trying to check to see if spouse is proficient with home defense, it might get me dead.

We talk about this topic every day. So that we dont worry about who does what when if a real threat presents.

Finally "Her" gun and "My" gun has a specific voice. That way when there is two of us responding to intruder or group of intruders, there is no confusion when more weapons if any start firing.

Regarding CCW's one uses a form of non lethal weapon that will disable, the other is CCW with handgun. The home itself is already "Pre-divided" into specific areas with a specific battle plan.

We like to fight with zero light. Particularly at night. We know every object within the home and have arranged some items to deliberately trip up a intruder who is trying to gain entry. The Laser we use provides us with just enough illumitation of target while strobe light destroys that person's vision day or night.

Finally, the intruder or stranger's body actions that show compliance to commands will probably live. The intruder that fails to obey or comply with commands, well... that will be between him/her and whatever awaits that person beyond death.

Most people become very compliant very quickly. The ones that fail to, are either impaired by drugs/alcohol or have already made a decision to engage us with force... either a weapon or physical assault.

Home Defense is a very fluid very changing situation to be involved with. One must be very careful indeed to learn the laws where they live, learn thier weapons of choice, learn/train other occupants of the home and most importantly....

Shoot, clean and practice with that weapon regularly.

Nothing is worse than a scared buyer of a weapon that then sticks it into a dresser cabinet thinking it's very presence will be some kind of a magic no intruder object.

Then when one does intrude, that owner will not know what to do and freeze in a mental overload of decision making/information/stress cycle and not have a good chance of surviving.

Ive used enough words here. I leave it here for others to respond and perhaps to learn from others what they may think. It is better to talk about this, shoot holes in it and improve upon this topic than it is to try and invent it under stress of a real home intrusion.
 
Well. Thank you Mr Moderator about the "Dog"

Spouse and I actually found a large Lab of about two years old in a shelter that would have taken very well to us. However it did not behave in a certian way causing the spouse to reject or gaurd a certian part of her body. So, we started talking about a smaller dog, a much smaller one.

Mentally, I am a large dog person. A Shepard, Junkyard mixed, Collie or Lab makes me very happy pet owner, but.... spouse is a cat person sooo...

Ya, Dogs are necessary. Therin lies the bark. :)
 
I thought a purpose of a trunk rifle was so that you had access to a rifle when you return home and find your door ajar et cetera?

Maryland won't allow me to carry a .22lr pistol, or even have one in my car, because it would be an unreasonable danger to the public. But a .308 rifle or a 12-gauge shotgun, they heartily approve, as long as they aren't loaded until I'm either on my own property again or [...reasonably apprehended danger...]
 
We just moved into a larger house this year. 2-story.

I've already walked thru and looked at all the firing distances and angles. Longest shot is 21-yards but most-likely shots are within 15-yards. Definitely within range for patterned shotgun and pistol. Plenty of cover and barricade locations.

Alarm and dogs are primary responders, I'll stay upstairs with the 12ga for anything that frames itself in the stairwell.
 
CWL-- i have a split level and have select lights remote from the bedroom so my wife can turn them on x xeconds after i leave the bedroom. this will back light anyone 'down there'.
also keep e-muff next to your defense gun. it can amplify 'them' with them not knowing you can hear. also protects your hearing if you do have to fire.
test your ammo that it is not smoky such that you will blind your flash if you fire.
 
Like Mr. Lapin's sig says, "Mindset, skillset, toolset--IN THAT ORDER!" It doesn't matter if you've got a one-shot-guaranteed-stopper gun and enough MallNinja training for Dick Marcinko and all other HighSpeedLowDrags to worship the ground you walk on if you don't have the MINDSET to put it all together and use it when Show Time comes...
 
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I think that the MOST important thing, is planning, reaction, deployment, communications. But all of that has been said 200 times before by SM and others.

Our neighborhood has several of us using FRS / GMRS radios, we all radio check at bedtime. In case the phone line gets cut (more and more this is happening) then we still have coms and the police can be notified. Also, there is a warning system in the event of emergency (hurricane, fire, what have ya). My wife and I have drilled together, and employ much of what Seagull related.

I also have a duty belt with holster, flashlight, mag / reload pouches, radio pouch by my nightstand. In a B&E / SHTF scenario as related by the OP, I have all my gear on me without having to think. While I do not always wear a firearm around the house, I do always have one in the room I am in or within arms reach. As far as coming home to a B&E in progress... I would call the police. No matter how careful you are, there is going to be a time when you can get got, if that is the time, then I will see you all on the other side. I just hope I can buy the necessary time for my family to make their escape. That is what weak hand knives are for eh? I can absorb some rounds, grab and stab, delay, then expire I guess.

Edit Again,

Ideally, I would like to have an OTV or interceptor vest, configured with a cross draw holster, light pouch, radio pouch, reloads and a Advanced Combat Helmet with a thermal cam mounted to it already. That would be nice hardware to add to the software...
 
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Note: If Staff around here had sent me my decoder ring, I would have one to send back.

Not too long ago, I moved out of state to a rural area.
How rural?
We ain't big enough to have a dot on a map.

The most serious situation has been a wittle black kitten getting lost and breaking the heart of a two year old little girl. I hate cats, I like kids, so yeah I keep an eye out for this kitten.

We have one cop, I have seen the squad car 4 times, and him in it, 3.

Today...I got to see what the County Sheriff has for marked, and unmarked units.
Two units showed as I was just getting started on my walk...

Was I armed?
Oh yeah, to the teeth!

Garrity LED key ring with two keys, index card with my name/address, and that of someone to contact in case of emergency, Vic Classic SD, 3 hand rolled cigarettes, Bic mini lighter, handkerchief, and two Altoid Peppermints.

Bring it on dudes!
Lets Rumble!


Hellifino what was going down, none of my business.
I do know the "Pop" I heard was that of a light bulb, and the other "crack" was that of glass breaking.

So I snag a Altoid out of my shirt pocket and toss to the nice dawgie on a long chain...
I continue my smooth move, by turning from the wind to light a smoke, and follow through, in a completed 180* turn in my old wore out tennis shoes, I just can't seem to toss for some reason.

So I walk another route.

Err...what address do I use to send back my decoder ring, (I never got in the first place) because...

I don't own a AR, much less any 30 rd mags, as I was out and about just shy of two whole blocks?
I continued on for whatever distance I walked...
No, I was not even carrying concealed.

<hangs head>
I coulda been kilt or something...

...need the address, as I done up and let everyone down in S&T down...



Use Enough Tennis Shoe.
 
you bring up a lot of good relevent points! for me, it will be a handgun. my home is lit well enough that there are few dark spots, and the few there are, i know quite well. also, i DO wear or have a firearm in hand 99% of the time, even at home. and i certainly would not go to answer the door late in the evening without one! i do have a ccw, so i am covered there. and anytime we, as a family, leave our home, the safe is secured. the only time a firearm would be out of the safe when we are gone, is if it is torn apart for cleaning, and it is soaking. even then, if i have to leave it, i put at least one of the functioning parts in the safe. they may get the gun, but they will not be able to use it against me! if we arived home, and the door was open, i would just stop and call the police. period. i will not take a chance with my family, nor will i be a dead hero. my family would be totally lost without me, so i just could not, and would not, take that chance. also, i do practice as much as possible with my handguns. i am certainly not a competition level shooter, but anyone in my home would be in a bad place, as long as my surging adrenalin did not screw me up to awful bad. and who really knows about that, until that moment arrives. you can shoot 500 rounds a week, and hit 10 rings 95% of the time. but in a true emergency, fight for your life, the adrenilin surge and your nerves will get the better of almost every single one of us, at least as civilians. i think the biggest thing is going to be remembering to take the time to aim, not just start spitting lead. i hope, and pray that the day when i HAVE to defend my family / home will never come. but if i am FORCED to, i will not lay down and die, i will at least go out fighting.
 
The interesting difference about police and civilian shootings is that very often by the nature of their job police have a chance to pre-deploy their weapons. Usually not so for the citizen, except in home defense type scenarios. I have found that during things like felony traffic stops where I had a pistol or shotgun out I was actually aiming using my sites. In all other situations where there was an immediate threat causing me to draw I concentrated on the threat and did not consciously aim. I focused on the threat with both eyes wide open. Your eyes track movement with both eyes open.- George
 
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