ZeSpectre
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A lot of good advice poste by others here.
If possible (and it's not possible for every couple) maybe you just need to agree to disagree. ArfinGreebly posted some great responses to the "I hate" statement.
My own advice is to enjoy your hobby, reassure your wife regularly that you are following strict safety rules, let her know the offer is alway open if she wants to try shooting, and then LET HER ALONE ON THE ISSUE!
That's pretty much what I had to do with my wife (as many here know). My only strict requirement was that my wife had to learn how to safely check, clear, and secure firearms. I couched it as the same sort of safety issue as learning to cook or drive a car. Once she got that down pat I left her alone about it.
Almost six years later....
Range trip with the wife...a few surprises for me.
It may happen or it may not. Even if it does happen it may take a lot of time. Be patient, or even better just don't worry about it. (I know, easier said than done).
If possible (and it's not possible for every couple) maybe you just need to agree to disagree. ArfinGreebly posted some great responses to the "I hate" statement.
My own advice is to enjoy your hobby, reassure your wife regularly that you are following strict safety rules, let her know the offer is alway open if she wants to try shooting, and then LET HER ALONE ON THE ISSUE!
That's pretty much what I had to do with my wife (as many here know). My only strict requirement was that my wife had to learn how to safely check, clear, and secure firearms. I couched it as the same sort of safety issue as learning to cook or drive a car. Once she got that down pat I left her alone about it.
Almost six years later....
Range trip with the wife...a few surprises for me.
It may happen or it may not. Even if it does happen it may take a lot of time. Be patient, or even better just don't worry about it. (I know, easier said than done).
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