You polish flats on a glass plate using progressively finer grades of black Wet or Dry emery paper & oil. Use straight motions in alternate directions as you move up to finer grades of paper. Once a good polish is achieved, finish with hand polishing with Semechrome on a soft cloth.
The glass plate will prevent you rounding off the edges on the slide flats.
But, be forewarned, a highly polished slide will pick up tiny scratches all over it before you get done putting the gun back together, and will look like crap after very little holster use.
If it is carbon steel, it will rust.
Jeweling has no place on the slide of any firearm.
In fact, other then the bolts on bolt-action rifles and the internals of fine double barrel shotguns?
It looks out of place most anywhere else you put it on a firearm.
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