SilentStalker
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Ok I am going to make this as concise as possible. I recently got a new job and today I was scheduled for my orientation which was located in a bad areaof town, well not necessarily really bad bu not good. This is an area that I am not keen on leaving my car in so I rode down there with a friend of mine that happened to be going to the same side of town today, besides this conserved gas so...! Anyways orientation began at 9 a.m. and everything was going well, then during a video I got up to use the bathroom. Well, I came back like 2 minutes later and everyone was gone except the instructor. She informed me that she just let everyone else out for lunch. I was planning on hitching a ride with someone from my orientation to get something to eat since I did not have my car but I never got the chance to do so and it turns out everyone went their own seperate ways at lunch anyways which I found amazing since gas is like $3.10 a gallon here. Anyways, as I stated everyone had gone by the time I get out of the bathroom. So, I was like, "Well I guess I will just walk to get something to eat since there was an Arby's not too far away.
Ok so at this point everything is cool and I begin my hike to the local Arby's. On the way I decided to call my g/f on my cell phone and talk a little while on my hike. Now on the way to the Arby's is a local Hooters. Now keep in mind I am just walking by talking on my phone to my g/f and I hear someone yell out something so naturally I look over there and this guy kept saying something and I thought it might be someone I know so I stand there talking on my phone trying to get a better look at this guy as I had to wait on the light to change to cross the road anyways. Well, I thought this dude was talking to me and it turns out in a round about way I was right. While I am standing there this tool runs up behind me and starts yelling *** are you looking at you pussy. I am like ***, I am sitting here minding my own damn business and I glance over there and this tool gets all pissed off. So, I calmly explain to him that I thought that he was talking to me and I thought I might know him so naturally I looked at him, my bad. Then he is like egging it on and saying crap like this is my Hooter's you pussy b****and you need to get the "F" off my parking lot, etc. etc. etc. This dude gets right up in my face, like 3 inches away, I def. felt threatened, but I decide to try and let it go and start walking off. Then he screams out, "Yeah that's right you pussy MF'er you need to start walking better yet start running before I put my MFing foot up you ass." I just kept walking casually, then he started following me. Eventually he left me alone but I am wondering if I handled this situation ok or if I could have handled it a little better some other way. I know turning my back to him was not the brightest idea but I was trying to deesculate the situation. Now keep in mind I have to hike back up this way to get back to my class so that was interesting but it turns out he was gone on my way back.
Now the sad thing is that there were all kinds of people in the parking lot and it seemed like nobody cared or they just did not know what was going on. Then again, they could have been laughing at this tool for what he was doing but I def. felt threatened and I am surprised I handled the situation that nicely as I am not one to piss off or scare or back into a corner. If I get put into that situation I don't care how much bodily harm I might cause to someone else, I care about defending myself or the innocent people around me, not how I could have handled the situation in a less lethal manner. What is interesting is that I assumed this clown was drunk but I have a strong sniffer and never smelt anything on his breathe even when he was 3 inches away. Also, I keep wondering why he chose me to attack when the Hooter's parking lot was full of other people. I don't know but I didn't like being in that situation so tommorrow I will be driving LOL. So, did I handle this situation reasonably or not? Was I the bigger man here? It has been roughly 7 hours now and I am still thinking about it. Damn it I hate people like that. Anyways let me know your thoughts.
Ok so at this point everything is cool and I begin my hike to the local Arby's. On the way I decided to call my g/f on my cell phone and talk a little while on my hike. Now on the way to the Arby's is a local Hooters. Now keep in mind I am just walking by talking on my phone to my g/f and I hear someone yell out something so naturally I look over there and this guy kept saying something and I thought it might be someone I know so I stand there talking on my phone trying to get a better look at this guy as I had to wait on the light to change to cross the road anyways. Well, I thought this dude was talking to me and it turns out in a round about way I was right. While I am standing there this tool runs up behind me and starts yelling *** are you looking at you pussy. I am like ***, I am sitting here minding my own damn business and I glance over there and this tool gets all pissed off. So, I calmly explain to him that I thought that he was talking to me and I thought I might know him so naturally I looked at him, my bad. Then he is like egging it on and saying crap like this is my Hooter's you pussy b****and you need to get the "F" off my parking lot, etc. etc. etc. This dude gets right up in my face, like 3 inches away, I def. felt threatened, but I decide to try and let it go and start walking off. Then he screams out, "Yeah that's right you pussy MF'er you need to start walking better yet start running before I put my MFing foot up you ass." I just kept walking casually, then he started following me. Eventually he left me alone but I am wondering if I handled this situation ok or if I could have handled it a little better some other way. I know turning my back to him was not the brightest idea but I was trying to deesculate the situation. Now keep in mind I have to hike back up this way to get back to my class so that was interesting but it turns out he was gone on my way back.
Now the sad thing is that there were all kinds of people in the parking lot and it seemed like nobody cared or they just did not know what was going on. Then again, they could have been laughing at this tool for what he was doing but I def. felt threatened and I am surprised I handled the situation that nicely as I am not one to piss off or scare or back into a corner. If I get put into that situation I don't care how much bodily harm I might cause to someone else, I care about defending myself or the innocent people around me, not how I could have handled the situation in a less lethal manner. What is interesting is that I assumed this clown was drunk but I have a strong sniffer and never smelt anything on his breathe even when he was 3 inches away. Also, I keep wondering why he chose me to attack when the Hooter's parking lot was full of other people. I don't know but I didn't like being in that situation so tommorrow I will be driving LOL. So, did I handle this situation reasonably or not? Was I the bigger man here? It has been roughly 7 hours now and I am still thinking about it. Damn it I hate people like that. Anyways let me know your thoughts.