Don't make me think twoblink.
Been mulling this one over since my first post.
Reading other's thoughts, trying to assimilate it all...or parts of it...
I am a Product of my environment, thats for sure.
When everyone is taught morals and values concurrent with the concept I define as American Liberty, with respect for self and others (at first blush, then ya gotta prove it); then I say, "OK, you might be reasonably sane and fit to interact with others up to and including bearing some form of arm or skill that can not only defend your life (and maybe mine) but one that could also be used in an offensive manner as well; in the hopes that your upbringing and societal mores are as good or better than mine.
(that sentence was almost as long as one of yours, trisha
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For the most part, I take this for granted, here in the part of North America called the USA and I erroneously assume that everyone everywhere shares this belief.
And probably, in large part... they do. Sometimes. In someplaces.
Not always and certainly not ALL people(s) (Currently the french come to mind).
Angry youngsters and even immature intellectuals who always know whats best for others need to be watched. If one is in the position to do so, and has a strong desire for spending time doing so, one MAY even initiate/educate/rehabilitate these poor lost souls. After raising two kids, I think I'd rather bang my head into a wall for a couplea hours...but be that as it may...
Success rate?
Questionable at best. Look at American Families and society or what passes for them/it today. Look at non-American cultures for the contrast.
It goes back to the "Who put you in charge today Mr. Omnipotent and why should I follow your rules?"
Some people plan, others are planned on. Some lead, some follow. Very Few march to their own drum (where HAVE I heard that?) without attracting unwanted attention.
Its an interesting hypothesis and fun to chew on, but in the end,
I like the fact that while being nice to everyone (on an individual basis) and while giving them a smile can be good, having a plan and/or the ability to stop (their) aberrant behaviour towards me and mine (how selfish of me) is probably in my best interest and highly practical.
As my dear old dad used to say when he was one of our Boy Scout Leaders, "Leave the world a better place for your having passed thru it... But Always... Be Prepared"
And yes twoblink, there are some people who just cannot play well with others. These are to be shunned and/or not trusted, sometimes regulated, neh?
Adios