So, with tongue firmly in cheek, I will ask, how do you use two scales to crosscheck?
Calibrate both via a check weight of close to the target weight. Once they're calibrated, if both scales show an object weighs the same, then that's what it weighs.
If they show a difference, then the question of which is right is admittedly open to a degree of interpretation. If the difference is .1 gr for a 158gr SWC, that's the same weight--they're both right. If the difference is .1gr for a 3.2gr charge of Bullseye, then a recalibration is called for. Even if the two never manage to consistently agree precisely on that 3.2gr charge, I'm still confident that the charge is 3.2gr +/- a tenth of a grain. I don't load on the ragged edge, so I'm safe.
The way I would use this procedure is very simple. When I need to weigh something during the reloading process, I'll use the scale that's easiest to operate for the task at hand. I'll weigh the first couple of things I need to weigh, then verify those weights on the other scale.
As I go, every nth thing will get re-weighed on the other scale. As long as the two stay in agreement, I'll assume they're accurate. If they deviate, it's time to recalibrate both.
For my purposes, that's plenty good enough. I could use a beam scale, but to me, electronics are simply easier to use and accurate enough.