Lee hand press kit - Lee .223 die set - Case trimmer - Neck De-burrer - scale - Auto prime tool and .223 holder - good manual - I suppose I need a tumbler or is there an alternate way to clean cases?
Good starting point, with a few more suggestions.
1. Unless you get the inexpensive Lee RGB die set, or another brand, you will receive a Lee shell holder with the dies. I would not suggest a neck die at this point but, if you want it, get the Lee Delux Die set which includes their excellant collet neck sizer. (I don't think you really won't need a crimper die at this point but Lee's Factory Crimp Die is the best, IMHO.) And Lee's Case Lube is as good as any, better than some.
2. Yes, you will need a specific shell holder for the Auto Prime if you don't get the 11 holder set.
3. Lee's inexpensive case trimmer system and de-bur tools are plenty sufficent for limited work. It's not good for doing a few hundred at a time tho. Use a power screw driver or slow drill motor to power the cutter into the brass if you do many at once.
4. Lee's Safety Scale is good but light so you have to exercise some finesse when using it. It's as accurate as any and you must have a scale for good AND safe work!
5. You will really want a powder measure too. Lee's Perfect Measure is very good with stick powder, not quite so good with ball powders (it tends to leak some) but it still works well for not much money. (Later, if you do wish to up grade, get a Redding)
6. EVERY LOADER NEEDS a loading manual, or two. May be the best money you spend. I'd suggest either the Lee or Lyman books, having both would be great. All loading manuals contain a lot of the same info but much of it is unique to each book. More than one helps give you a better over-view of many aspects of reloading. READ, STUDY, AND UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY SAY! Come back here if you get confused, don't take a chance with safety.
7. Tumblers clean the brass AND make it purty! You can CLEAN it in a soak solution of white vinegar and water, about 50-50. Leave the brass in it for 20-30 minutes and remove, rinse and allow it to dry a few hours or, better, over night. Store the solution for reuse later, it's cheap but save it anyway. I was reloading for about 20 years before I got a tumbler so it sure ain't neccessary. But, they are nice, so put one on your list for later if you like.
Have fun!