Good lord, no, please don’t scrap that brass. From your picture it looks perfectly fine, looks like what I have that I wet tumbled years ago. If you’re concerned about it, just set it aside for now. I’d be willing to load a test batch with it.
To check for setback, it’s safest to use dummy rounds, although I use live rounds. I have a 2x4 block I push the loaded round into as hard as I can, it dents the wood and you can measure if it decreases in length. For extra measure, thump it a few times. You should also load them in your gun, allow the slide to rack forward at normal speed, then eject and measure them again.
Even if you get a beam balance, you still should get check weights to verify the scale. There are inexpensive (20$) sets on Amazon and once a scale is calibrated, I’ll use a check weight that’s in the range of the powder throw I’m using.
You should also weigh your bullets, just to verify they weigh what you think.