July 4th: My hero died

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My grandfather passed away on July 4th of this year of systemic lymphatic cancer which he'd been fighting off quite effectively since it was discovered 5 years ago. He was born 79 years prior, on December 7th. A week before he died, he had been out in the yard trimming bushes; up until he was no longer physically able, he was still busy trying to impart his encyclopedia of knowledge and wisdom to the following generations.

Morgan, my grandfather, was a Renaissance man living in the wrong era. He went about his day singing songs; or writing, memorizing, and reciting poems, and with the occasional stop at the easel to paint a landscape. With intimacy, he knew every winding trail and field, and arguably every tree, for miles around.

Yet, he was always there to help a person in need. "Have a happy heart" and "If I can do it, you can do it" were two of the guiding principles in his life, and it showed in his zeal. He was highly involved with local historical and wildlife preservation efforts.

He taught an untold number of people to shoot, myself included. Despite the many who received instruction from him, I was uniquely fortunate to have him - a prominent member on the 2nd Army Rifle Team in his time, a recipient of the Distinguished Marksman award, and a thoroughly accomplished outdoorsman - as an instructor.

Starting when I was at a very young age, he started teaching me about the world. Sometimes it was about shooting. It wasn't so much the shooting itself that I was taught at this early age, but the little, important things which go along with firearms, hand in hand: a love and appreciation for the outdoors; an understanding of the environment and how it feeds back upon itself; the civil and personal responsibility. As I got older, shooting accurately - as a grown man would - became more of the emphasis. The outdoors was his focus throughout life, and every little thing about it continued to fascinate and overjoy him until the final bell tolled.

Being his grandson, he did little things to help guide me towards a love of the outdoors. When he would take us fishing, he would often make the fish talk to my brother and me. When we were walking in the woods and we would happen upon an animal track, he'd try and get us to guess what it was before he told us. He made us deadfall sets and would help us trap things like squirrels, chipmunks, and the occasional raccoon.

His largeness in life may have been colored by the fact that I was his grandson, but he impacted a great many people in a similar fashion as well. His powerful, charismatic personality was captivating until the end. I doubt I will ever be able to load a magazine with .22LR and, looking at my hands, not think of him doing the same.

Grampa, I'll miss you.
 
Wow. Those are some dates.
Kinda makes the magnanimity of your grandfather come through.
I've lost loved ones, and it's like someone tore a huge hole in your body.
It's like being in that stated of shocked death for an eternity.
You may not always think about it, but it's always with you.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
 
My sincere sympathy for the loss of your Granddad.
What a wonderful man he must have been!
Just from reading your post it's obvious he instilled some wonderful values in you.
You'll carry his memory and life lessons into your future and impart them to your own future generations.
Thank you for sharing your memories of this fine man.
 
sorry to hear of the loss of your grand dad...... sounds like he had full life......we must remember NO ONE GETS OUT ALIVE....... and LIFE IS SHORT.... no matter how long you live..... i found my 31 yr old son dead in his bed on jan 24th this winter......... worst day of my life so far.... as i said sorry for the loss of your grand dad.....................................................
 
Tasco 74, that is horrible. I have no perspective for that kind of loss, though I've heard it's more difficult to lose a child than anything else.

Thank you all for your sympathies. It truly felt like he was the kind of person who simply could not die (he's been shot a number of times and run over by a train to no ill effect), so it's been difficult. The man was as close to a demigod as a mortal gets, to me.
 
Very sorry for your loss. I lost my father to cancer several years ago. To this day I sometimes think, man I wish I could talk to dad about this or that. They say that time heals all wounds. I hope it is eventually for you like it is now for me. Only the good thoughts remain.
 
It was just yesterday,
When grandpa passed away.
Why, when I loved him so,
Why did he have to go?
When I found out,
I began to pout.
I began to cry,
Then asked myself why,
Why did he have to die?
But all good things,
Must come to an end.
Evidently, so did this friend.
Here today, gone tomorrow,
Parting is,
Such sweet sorrow.
Wrote that for my grandfather when he died. I was very young, as you can likely tell, but I think this applies. I'm sorry for your loss, a friend like that is always hard to lose.
 
What a wonderful tribute to a fine man. I am very close to my only grandson (4 years old) - we are each other's best friend in the world. Your story inspires me to teach him whatever he will take from me. I'm probably not half the man your grandfather was - but maybe with God's grace it will be enough.
 
I feel a deep sense of loss for you, Caimlas.

I lost my grandfather several years ago, and it sounds like he was cut from the same mold as your Grandfather. It is such a blessing to have men like these to look up to and live up to.

In spite of the loss it is beautiful to celebrate such lives. As others are saying, we must pass it on!
 
I tell you what, if you want to cry like a baby, listen to Roger Creager's "I Got the Guns".

Song came on when I got the call about my papa, it hit me like a ton of bricks.
 
I am truly sorry to hear about your grandfather passing, I am sure he is in a better place.
I will say an extra prayer for you and your family.
 
Roger Creager I Got The Guns lyrics

Roger Creager I Got The Guns lyrics
Roger Creager
They are little more than a few old guns handed down the line.
Once owned by my Nana and Papa, but now they are mine.
They've been all the way to Utah, then back home to Texas again.
They've seen Colorado, Wyoming, and the Grand Canyon.
Hunting trips in the freezing snow and up before the sun.
They're now apart of me, I got the guns.
I never really got to know him I was much to young
He died on the Corpus Christi Bay when I was one.
A Christian man I barely knew, but he was oh so proud of me.
He ran the nursery at the church for free
Amazing Grace how sweet the sound he always sung
Sometimes I can hear him when I fire them guns
Chorus:
I've seen tears in grown men's eyes when they speak of their granddad
Then they laugh at how he spoiled then to the bone
I don’t have those memories that I can hold on to
So I keep hanging on to his old guns
Nana lived on a few more years until Christmas '79
I thank God for those childhood memories of mine
My sister told me in confidence her innocent secret birthday wish,
dear Lord bring Nana back to us
But instead she got her earrings old time clip-ons and she had fun
Me, I was 8 years old and I got the guns
I was only daughter's son, his pride and all his love
Maybe someday if I try my best I'll be half the man he was
He knew love lasted longer. The great depression only made him stronger
He saved his pennied and prayed to God each night
He knew how to weather hard times and showed us how to overcome
I can feel his strength when I hold his guns
Just and old bolt-action 16 gauge
And my grandmother's 410
A 270 that my dad fired once
He brought a mule deer in



Roger Creager I Got The Guns lyrics
 
You've been blessed to have such a great grandpa...

Though you'll forever miss him, you can honor his life by becoming the same manner of man and passing on the same blessings to others.
 
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