go down to the P3AT or LCP size as I really don't like shooting them. If you have experience with the budget friendly Kahr please share it with me. I keep reading posts by people saying they pocket carry them. Will this work? Would I have to wear cargo pants? Please enlighten me.
CM9 is my go to gun when I feel like going "light". IWB or pocket carry both work well. Appendix IWB is actually comfortable to the point its on par with being unarmed (while you will mostly be aware of its presence in the pocket due to the weight distribution within the pants.
As most posters above me I can only add good experience as regards reliability - it has been flawless actually. Now with 2.000 rds+ the plastic in the back of the slide is a bit out of shape to the point that the slide does sometimes not come back completely - it rests a tiny bit back, however during the trigger pull it moves back to its place completely (it would be unnoticable to someone not accustomed to the gun) and otherwise still works flawlessly. I am thinking about replacing it with another PM9/CM9 model, especially now that the Czech gun legislation will permit lasers from August 2017.
Apart from absolute reliability I especially like the long trigger with pull just between what I have on my DA/SA CZ 75 (CZ 75 Compact and CZ 75 Stainless alternate as my primary carry guns). I would hate to have either safety pistol (i.e. small 1911 type) or no-safety single action alike trigger firearm for concealed carry (i.e. Glock 43). I have tried quite a few small pistols and this really works well for me (most that don't fir either of the two discarded categories have SA like trigger with really heavy pull).
Shooting the gun is not pleasant nor the opposite, my biggest problem being large hands. When I do longer runs at range (i.e. more than 30 rds - it is subcompact after all) I prefer to switch to single handed shooting. It is definitely more pleasant to shoot than my GF's Smith & Wesson Bodyguard... which we just returned due to FTF/FTE occurring every 10 rds (that after the shop "repaired it" - which actually partially helped, since we have previously had extreme FTF - the slide would not jam while loading round to chamber, but completely jump the round and lock unloaded - absolute nightmare scenario with DA gun that was at the time also suffering from light strikes).
That being said...
Shoulder carry wouldn't work for me. The reason I want something I can conceal better is I am on the security team at church. We don't really want anyone aware of the guns. It is a more difficult place to discreetly carry because people come up & hug you, etc. Casual dress is okay where we go so I have been wearing a loose fitting untucked shirt & carrying OWB but I want to be as discreet as possible. This would also allow me to dress a little nicer hopefully.
Thanks everyone for the replies so far. Please keep them coming.
I would NEVER chose subcompact, Kahr or any other, as my go-to gun in case I would either be in situation of higher danger (be it due to place or other circumstances) or should I be entrusted with other people's security. The combination of low round count, lower precision (you can get to the same precision on the range, however it does not point naturally the way a full size gun does, and you do need much more time to get to the same level of precision as I would do with full size CZ 75) and especially more tricky follow up shots (due to long trigger pull and less natural point of aim).
As I said I alternate between full size CZ 75 Stainless and compact CZ 75 Compact D. The Compact covers nicely IWB when I have jacket on, full size prints a bit but not to the point that anyone would notice unless they are knowledgeable. Keep it 3 or 4 o'clock and you can hug anyone as you like, unless they go down with their hands onto your butt they won't have a chance to get to the gun.