Outside of being a German Beer man, rather than a Bourbon man, I like your take on this, completely! #9 is likely to be better with the lighter weights because most shooters will come come closer to building hi-pressure loads where #9 will excel. That level of pressure is not required for the 180s; not 1300 FPS from an autoloading pistol, anyway. This is the kind of performance you'll see from guys trying to push 180 gr. JHPs from 26 oz. pistols using IMR 800-X that is less than ideal for building full pressure 10mm loads where ballistic uniformity is paramount. Someone says different, watch them shoot a 180 gr. load that achieves 1300 FPS in an autoloader. The 1006 is one of the heavier 10mm autos ever made, so imagine what guys are really doing with pistols that weigh 1/2, or 1 pound less.
Welcome to the forum, btw! And further welcome to another .41 magnum shooter. More good news: #9 is about the best full pressure powder I have used for either the .41 or .357 Magnum. For loads that are 150 FPS, or so slower, #7 can be exceptional in accuracy, but many shooters are using slower magnum powders; slower than #9 to build loads that #7 will equal in velocity. #7 was formulated for full pressure 9mm, and few are better, but even then, full pressure means different things to different people. 35,700 CUP was the pressure target until around 1990, or the present day 38,500 PSI designated by SAAMI as +P. Most 9mm shooters are looking for loads that develop something around minor power factor. Recoil sensitivity is about the most overlooked topic I see on gun forums.
The hi-end performance with #9 and 155 gr. bullets in 10mm is more performance than what is logically applicable to anything other than whitetail deer. I will get some flack, but I'm a firm believer that most conventional JHPs for self defense cartridges are designed to work at an optimum of 500 - 550 Ft/Lbs of kinetic energy. With a 155 gr. JHP, that's 1264 FPS (550 Ft/Lbs), and achievable from a .40 S&W with the correct powder. Loading down, is and always has been the key to turning the 10mm into the superb defense cartridge it could have always been, but a max charge of #9 takes a 155 to over 1400 FPS. Maybe ideal for some hunting situations, but far short of what some gun rag writers claimed: .41 magnum power from an autoloader, where #9 will push a 170 gr. Sierra JHC to around 1700 FPS from a 7 1/2" Ruger Redhawk. Misapplication! The 10mm is still capable of producing more energy than a +P .45 ACP, and before we get into a debate on momentum, it might be best to have an understanding of what sectional density is all about.
The 180 gr. JHP at 550 ft/lbs of KE? It takes only 1173 FPS, which is more energy than a +P .45 ACP 185 gr. factory JHP will achieve. Push it to 1300 FPS and it will develop 676 Ft/Lbs and 234 Power Factor, and you ain't gonna find any .45 ACP factory load that equals that, +P, or + Kryptonite. Long story, not quite so short, you don't need #9 to develop 1173 FPS with a 180 gr. JHP in 10mm. #7 will be at a more optimum pressure level, and what it is designed to operate at, hence, better performance!