My Dad

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Hey everyone,

Unfortunately I have very sad and hard news. My Father died last week 2/13/08 at 7:15pm. He was my history and civil war buddy, mentor, father, black powder shooting buddy and best friend. I talked to him multiple times a day, everyday and spent every weekend with him either shooting, casting, cooking or just talking. We had a great life together.

He struggled with emphysema and ultimately succumbed to lung cancer (Please Stop Smoking!). Thankfully he didn't suffer and it was quick and easy. He was home, with my brother and I and I held him in my arms at the end to his last breath. He was where he wanted to be at home, our place of peace and serenity, with his two boys that he loved more than life itself. Who can ask for more?

I am crushed, sad and really feeling the pain and loss but ultimately I can't really be sad. Most fathers and sons didn't have what my Dad and I had and I will never take that for granted. I have no regrets and know I am not one to say, "I wish I had spent more time with him, or wish I knew him better" because all I did was talk to him and spend time with him. It's a beautiful thing. But I will miss him dearly everyday of my life.

He handed down to me this heritage and love of black powder and like me would browse these boards everyday and we would talk about all you guys and the things on the board to no end and constant amusement. In a way all of you contributed to our life too. So thanks!

I picked up his ashes yesterday and I can think of no better tribute to him than to mix a pinch of his ashes into my powder and horn everytime I refill it or go out. He made three rifles in his life and now I hold them close to me as they are him. His blood is in the wood stocks as he knicked and cut himself while making them. They are his true essence and now he will also be part of them and the Holy Black Powder that he and I loved so much.

I will shortly be moving in to his house back in Indiana and really can't wait to get out to the peace and quiet that it always brought to all of us. He will be close to me and around me always. I love you Pop!

Allen M. Boyd 10/28/44 - 2/13/08 Rest in Peace.


I just wanted to show a couple pictures of his rifles, they are priceless to me and will forever be in the family.

The top one is a .36 squirrel gun he built in the late 60's, just before I was born.

The gorgeous one in the middle is a .62 smooth rifle circa 1770-80. This was the last one he completed only a year or two ago. The stock is curly maple and the way he finished it really brought out the striping. It's just stunning.

The bottom is my personal favorite and the one he that he was really proud of and of me shooting (I'm really good with it!!). It's a .54 Hawken with a Douglass barrel. It took him about 30 years to complete, :lol: . He bought the parts back in the early 70's at Friendship, started it but found that his new family and children distracted him to other things, :D . He did a few things to it here and there but just never got around to finishing it. Then as I got older and became interested in the same things, he retired and finally did have the time to go back to working them again. The Hawken was finished about six years ago.


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Beautifull work. Im sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Its good to hear that he passed a lot of wisdom and knowledge to both you and your brother.


Sincerly

Scott

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This thread is a tribute to Allen M. Boyd
May he rest in peace
 
My heart goes out to you.
I lost my father to cancer 5 years ago, he was my best friend also.
I was with him the night he passed. He held on in bad shape for weeks, and went peacefully the night I tild him that it was OK... that I would take care of the family now.
Cherish your memories and those guns... but mostly the memories.
What is in your head and heart can never be lost or taken.


Jim
 
My prayer's go out to you and your family on your loss. We lost our Dad to cancer about 3 years ago. It was hard on everyone as he suffered so much. It was a blessing that your Dad didn't suffer long. We both had good Dad's and a lot of fond memories. Dad wasn't a hunter or shooter, but he loved golf. He used to hit old range balls into the woods and every so ofter I'll find one of his lost balls. I took my youngest son hunting last week and he found one of Dad's balls in my truck. He asked me if I wanted to play redneck golf. I said "sure, why not". He placed Dad's ball in the middle of the road and he took first shot and then I shot. He beat his old man twice that day, but I was handicaped. I was shooting a single shot chipmunk .22lr with a bsa scope. He had a cz452 in 17hmr with a nikon scope. On the last go around we had each fired 16 shots (all hits) and I missed the 17th shot.

Dad used to give me some of his older balls which I used to toss in the air and bust them with my nylon 66. They were much easier to hit than quarters. I wish my eyesight was as good as it was back then.

You Dad did a fine job on those rifles. I know you will cherish them as long as you live.
 
My sincerest sympathy to you. You were blessed to have that relationship with your Father. Mine died when I was 6 months old and i never had the chance to have what you had.

Interesting you mentioned Friendship in the 70's. I might have brushed shoulders with you Dad or seen him shoot there. When I lived in Cincinnati I did not miss the Muzzle-loader shoots.

Beautiful rifles too!
 
Phantom C – Am most sorry to have heard about your father. My own father has been fighting off the big “C” for over four years. Really have to hand it to him, though. If it’s a nasty day, in Ohio, when I call him, he’ll be in the basement, working out on the exercise bicycle. Guy never quits – bless his heart. Lost mom, years ago. Don’t know what I’m going to do when he passes. So, have an idea of what you are going through. An idea. But, I don’t know, yet.

Looks like you inherited a fine legacy and some very nice iron. Long as you hold his memory, he will always be with you on some level. Looks like you got some help, there.
 
Your Dad made those rifles? Wow. What a legacy. He had a great talent. And the fact that his son thought enough of him to honor his memory in such a public way, well, I'd say he lived about as good a life as can be expected. We should all hope for such a tribute.
As was mentioned before, when they go, they don't go far, but I'm guessing you know that by now.
I lost both my parents to lung cancer. I just got the 5 yr "all clear" from the disease. You never know, so, as they say, live every day as if it's your last- get as many guns as you can and shoot the crap out of them.
 
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Phantom enjoy the memories you have ...I know it`s a lost time won`t heal . Lost my Father 10 years ago ...Still think of him every day .
 
I'm trying to wipe the tears from my eyes as I finished reading your wonderful eulogy. I too lost my father to lung cancer over 10 years ago. I think of him often particulary when shooting or fishing with my son. He has Grandpa's model 12.

I know it's hard now, but you seem to have found the answer that I did. In the end, only the good memories remain.

I'll say a prayer for your dad.
 
Thanks everyone, sincerely.

Your words, thoughts and prayers really mean a lot to me. It does offer a bit of comfort in a hard time. Human kindness and caring are remarkable things especially from this group of like-minded folks even though we have never met.

It's just really nice. Thanks.
 
I lost my father labor day also my wifes birthday 97, the following spring took my little brother on Memorial day 98 and anurisium from no where, had he lived a week he would have been 40. Easter 99, wife folks were stabbed to death.

Please allow me to say i understand.

Then let me say i am a Buck Skinner and the guns your father crafted are done very well. Care for them, take them to camp fires, and in some ways they may speak to you.
 
Sorry to here that.

Hey there:
I will quit smoking... My oldest son and I are very much like you and your father. We do everything together. We hunt, shoot , fish, and just talk, every day of the year. I am 51 he is 29. I am fortunate enough that I can afford to keep him in guns and hunting and fishing gear. he has two very young dauthers and one on the way. I love this. The money means nothing to me. I just bought us a pair of new coyote rifles. And we use them at every chance. I'm headed over there to night to watch a coyote hunting vid with him now.
God bless you ! Never let go.... And keep those guns till death do you part.
 
Sorry to hear...

Very nice rifles, and an even greater tribute to your father.

My father passed away 21 days ago, February 1st... He didn't make any rifles, but taught his 4 boys how to use 'em! It still hurts... but a little less every day, as I know he's no longer suffering like he was towards the end...

It's weird how I'll be OK with it, and then BANG -- something silly like the large MidwayUSA catalog shows up -- something that I've always passed along to him over the last few years and then it hits me -- $%#@ -- can't pass it on to him any more...

Enough about me, but I DO feel your pain and loss...

Find comfort in the fond memories you have of the past, and may they comfort you today, and also in the future.

Who knows... Maybe our Dad's our talking guns right now... And that brings a smile to my face.

To close with the verse from my Dad's favorite song from WWII: "Bless Em All!"

Old No7
 
My Dad just passed away this past Thursday,the 21st.Exactly 89 years to the day his Dad passed.My Dad was 95. No guns to leave me[your Dad's are beautiful!] but great memories and an example of what a decent person should act like and emulate.
 
condolences, and much respect for the beautyful work he did.

feelings from germany,
Matt.
 
I am very sorry to hear your loss Captain. However, remember what Charles Frazier said about the Nightland in "Thirteen Moons". It is only another step in the journey, and I can say that your father is right now amongst President George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Stonewall Jackson, Robert E. Lee, and everybody else who did the right things in life and worked for the people.

Maybe he is even sitting with General Lee at the moment, talking about what went wrong at Gettysburg and how it could have turned out for the better:D Hope it makes you feel better.

Those rifles are beautiful. You can keep your father's great legacy continuing by preserving his art and maintaining the traditions he has set.

My heart goes out to you.
 
Thanks again, all of you.

You are all most kind. :)

It's been a few weeks now and it's starting to sink in. I am still in shock I think but it's starting to sink in.

Now, more than anything I'm waiting for this awful winter to break so I can get out to the range and make some smoke. Nothing will make me feel closer to my Pop now.

I'm gonna cast some .530 balls this weekend and get ready to take the Hawken out!

In a way it will be completely his voice, speaking again.
 
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