akodo, that's what I thought, and that's why I was suprised enough to write a post looking to see what I could have done different. Here's a few more details:
My friend is/was a total newbie to firearms and thought they would be of no value for a few reasons. We rented a Ruger .22 of some sort (looked like a MkII/MkIII) and bought 100 rounds of range ammo (premium CCI). We covered all the safety basics (four rules, trigger discipline, knowing the state of the firearm at all times, etc.), then operation basics (trigger, slide, slide release, magazine, how a round is chambered, etc.), then basic handling (stances, dominant eye, grip, finger disipline to keep from getting bitten, etc.). There were no problems, and within the first 20 rounds, my friend even scored a *bullseye* on the 1:1-scale human silhouette at four yards. We then started loading more than one round in the magazine, etc., until all 100 rounds were gone, and it was about time to go. My friend then asked to shoot one round from my G17, which is, in hindsight, a rather light full-sized 9mm. I unloaded my 124g Speer Gold Dots (NOT +Ps) and loaded a single round of Wal-Mart WWB ammo (my practice round, a normal not-hot round). I watched the pistol, and my friend let it jump up fairly high, and immediately pronounced dislike for it. The recoil was the problem.
The solution? Yeah, as folks are pointing out, may be to rent a heavy revolver and load some light .38 rounds. There's interest in moving beyond the .22, but I do NOT want to spook my friend. I do hope, however, that a "better" round than the .22LR will be acceptable. If the light .38 rounds are too much, then I'll definitely look at a small carbine.
As for an EBR, my .308 Galil is a bit much, I think. ;D We'll definitely take out my SKS next time, along with some recoil pads, just in case. Sorry, I've just grown to love those commie rifles more and more as time goes on.