liestaylor, do two things. Check the sticky at the top of this forum regarding starting reloading and equipment basics. Then order a copy of The ABC's of Reloading. It's an excellent book and will answer about 95% of the questions you have. Then get a couple (yes several) reloading manuals from Speer, Hornady, Lyman, and others. Which one depends on what you will be reloading. The bullet manufacturers generally have the best information on their bullets in their own manuals. Also look up the powder manufactuers' web sites for more data on specific powder loads.
In short, you gotta do some homework on your own. Reloading is fun and should be safe, but if you don't know what you're doing, and I read into your question that you don't, you can end up wearing your rifle on your face. Be careful and be knowledgable.