I've done it, and I've lived and worked for years in the urban parts of other cities, too. It isn't hell. It can be kind of cool if you open up just a little and let yourself see the benefits and opportunities there.
Part of why we have the crazy disconnect between segments of our society today is that we get so insular and blinkered and lodged in our own ruts that we start to think that other citizens who choose to live and work in different settings are in "a hell" we can't even imagine. They aren't. They have challenges we don't, and absolutely don't face certain challenges that us rural types deal with regularly. They have things available right around the corner or a quick subway ride away that we'd have to dedicate a day or more to get to enjoy. And they'd have to make significant plans and go to a lot of trouble to enjoy some things that are right outside our doors. They allocate resources and time to solve, without any great bother, the problems that scare "us," like dealing with traffic or crime, just as we allocate resources and time to deal without real concern with problems that sound dangerous and scary to them, like isolation, meth labs, or the problem of finding marriageable partners to whom we aren't directly related.
People are hugely adaptable and very slight differences in experience and priority-setting can make vast-seeming differences in lifestyle. But if "we" rural types think those alien, crazy, deluded people in our hellish cities should stop considering us "deplorables" and "clingers" who live in "flyover country" then we probably aught to stop promoting the same insular, insecure way of seeing the other side.