because you can't just go around forcing everyone else to adapt to you. (Well, they can, but that doesn't make it right or any less ridiculous.)
In this, we are in complete and total agreement. As a matter of fact, I would go so far as to say that this is the crux of my argument. Overly sensitive people have made schools such politically correct institutions that I really believe that what they should do has been totally replaced by what they are willing do to placate whiners (and, to placate legitimate complaints), which is why I didn't think the "would" and "should" argument was irrelevant. Your right, it is ridiculous. Without delving into a whole new topic, I don't think it's liberal attitudes, pussified administrators or sensitive teacher/students/parents behind most of these actions. I can blame at least 90% of any schools issues in this country on three words: Fear of litigation. It would be naive to think that some school policy isn't guided by bleeding hearts who can't see the forest for the trees, but trust me when I say that litigation, or a fear thereof, drives about 90-95% of school policy. To your point about banning pictures of cars, pencils, etc... I am not sure that that wouldn't be the case. Now, most administrators, teachers and students wouldn't take offense to a car, obviously, but it truthfully does only take one to screw it up.
Believe it or not, when I was in school (86-90) we often brought our shotguns to the school during goose and duck season. I went to a small, rural school that was literally out in the middle of a cornfield, and the principal built a couple of blinds for us to use. Times have changed, and now the school has locks on the lockers, security guards and there are no blinds in the cornfield, but it was a nice place to go to school.
Also, you might be interested to know that I showed "Saving Private Ryan" a few weeks back as part of a unit on WWII. I personally feel that this is an excellent movie, and I am even ostentatious enough to call it as "important film". Because it is violent and there is some bad language, district policy requires that I send home parental approval slips, along with an alternative assignment if the parents do not authorize viewing. Of a class of 39 kids, 9 of them got alternative assignments. 5 because the parents didn't want the kids to see the violence, 2 because they never returned their approval slips, 1 because she was sick that day, and 1 because he was a "peace activist". Frustrating, to say the least. Interestingly, the kids think it is really cool that I was a Marine, and they are fascinated to the point of distraction that I was shot in Desert Storm. I have even received a couple of heartfelt "Thank you for your service" notes on days where that would be appropriate. I have also gotten a couple of random "Hey, Mr. M! GFY" notes, but thats a whole different subject.
Also, just to be argumentative, private cars have likely saved millions of lives by being used as conveyance to deliver doctors to hospitals. Usually, its really, really nice private cars that do that, but still....