The answer lies in Newtonian physics.
The less massive the reaction side of an action/reaction pair of objects...the more violent the reaction will be for a given power level.
Of course, other factors must be considered. In an autopistol, the recoil spring transmits at least half of the recoil force to the frame...so the felt recoil will vary according to the resistance offered by the recoil spring...or action spring, as it's probably more accurately described.
The stiffer the spring...the sharper the recoil will be.
Then, factor in the amount of force remaining when the slide hits the frame's impact abutment. The slower it's going, the less violently the gun will "flip" when it hits. The less massive the slide...ditto...all else being equal.
And vice-versa.
Bottom line...and to give you a direct answer...there are too many variables to give you a definitive answer. As with many questions regarding felt recoil, the answer is very often..."It depends."
Revolvers are much simpler. With those...or any other fixed breech firearm...it's a matter of mass and momentum.