You have lots of good alternatives!
I live in Utah, about 30 miles north of Salt Lake City...very near Hill AFB, previously mentioned. There is a lot to recommend this area. Unemployment is typically less than the national average, there is a lot of software development going in the Provo area, and the climate is reasonably mild. HAFB has somewhere around 30,000 people on base, and is an alternative you should check. But there are LOTS of other good opportunities here.
The state is extremely gun friendly. There is an abundance of public land, and better than average hunting. Did I mention the best snow on Earth? Lots of skiing here.
We did live about 50 miles south of Reno for several years. I liked it a lot. I could take my wife to a dinner show at Tahoe, we had plenty of space, and the weather was.... interesting. Every afternoon, the wind would come up. The so-called Washoe Zephyrs were enough to blow away anything not well anchored. One day, I was in our back yard, and put out my hand to balance myself while I took a rock out of my shoe. That was a lucky thing. All the siding on the downwind side of the house was loose and hanging by its toenails. I had to use cement (basically hot melt glue that melted from the friction of hammering) screw nails to keep it secured.
Again, there is plenty of public land, decent hunting, and abundant outdoor recreation. I quite liked it.
Most places, you roll down the top of the Cheerios bag to avoid having the cereal attract moisture. There, you do it so it doesn't dry out.
The other place we really enjoyed living was SW Michigan, in St. Joseph. If you like the Midwest (and there is a lot to like about it), that is the best I've seen. You're right on the shore of Lake Michigan, across the lake from Chicago. The climate is very much moderated by the lake. However, lake effect is exactly as hard to shovel as regular snow. On balance, the climate is quite nice. There isn't much public land, but it's a very enjoyable place.