bennadatto
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So my pregnant wife and I are driving to the in-laws for a Mother's Day dinner. There is a guy in the left turn lane, and I am in the right lane next to him. He starts to swerve into me and I honk at him. Not a rude, d-bag honk, just a "hey don't hit me" honk. So the guys lays on his horn and starts screaming in his car and flipping me the bird.
I ignore him and he gets behind me and then pulls in the lane to the right of me. I can tell this guy is a live wire so I keep ignoring him and hope he gets the message. We come to a light and I move to the left lane to put a buffer between our cars. He also moves to the left to stay next to me. When we stop at the light, the guy gets out of his car. He is screaming "I'm gonna F you up. I'm gonna kill you etc." I then move my car to the left turn lane with the hopes of diffusing the situation. He follows.
The light is still red, and there is no chance of running it due to heavy traffic. Let me also interject that I did not bring my gun with me, a mistake I will never repeat. So here I am in my car with my pregnant wife with some crazy guy closing in threatening to kill me. I have nowhere to go at this point, and I refuse to give this maniac the chance to get close enough to my wife or myself to make good on his threats. As he gets behind my car, I put the car in reverse and am just prepared to hit the accellerator when I glance up at the light which had just turned green. I throw the car in drive and punch it. As I do this, my wife is calling the police, and I give them a very detailed description of this idiot.
I learned 2 things from this:
1. When I am going somewhere where I can legally carry my gun (GA has weird gun restrictions) I will never leave it at home again. Ever.
2. You can mentally prepare for these types of situations all day long, but when it actually happens, your heart rate is jacked and your nerves are shot. I need to find some sort of "real-world" training to simulate adrenaline and nerves.
Also, this got me to thinking. Had I been stuck in traffic and had zero ability to flee the situation and been armed, what would I have done? And if it became necessary to use deadly force, when would have been the right time to present my firearm. As he gets to my window? After he breaks through my window? Before he gets to the door? I would think presenting a firearm too early may further escalate the situation, or force him to draw as well. Conversly, if I present too late, it may be too late altogether.
Please let me know your thoughts on my handling of the situation, and the extended variables I just listed. Thanks in advance for your thoughtful responses.
So my pregnant wife and I are driving to the in-laws for a Mother's Day dinner. There is a guy in the left turn lane, and I am in the right lane next to him. He starts to swerve into me and I honk at him. Not a rude, d-bag honk, just a "hey don't hit me" honk. So the guys lays on his horn and starts screaming in his car and flipping me the bird.
I ignore him and he gets behind me and then pulls in the lane to the right of me. I can tell this guy is a live wire so I keep ignoring him and hope he gets the message. We come to a light and I move to the left lane to put a buffer between our cars. He also moves to the left to stay next to me. When we stop at the light, the guy gets out of his car. He is screaming "I'm gonna F you up. I'm gonna kill you etc." I then move my car to the left turn lane with the hopes of diffusing the situation. He follows.
The light is still red, and there is no chance of running it due to heavy traffic. Let me also interject that I did not bring my gun with me, a mistake I will never repeat. So here I am in my car with my pregnant wife with some crazy guy closing in threatening to kill me. I have nowhere to go at this point, and I refuse to give this maniac the chance to get close enough to my wife or myself to make good on his threats. As he gets behind my car, I put the car in reverse and am just prepared to hit the accellerator when I glance up at the light which had just turned green. I throw the car in drive and punch it. As I do this, my wife is calling the police, and I give them a very detailed description of this idiot.
I learned 2 things from this:
1. When I am going somewhere where I can legally carry my gun (GA has weird gun restrictions) I will never leave it at home again. Ever.
2. You can mentally prepare for these types of situations all day long, but when it actually happens, your heart rate is jacked and your nerves are shot. I need to find some sort of "real-world" training to simulate adrenaline and nerves.
Also, this got me to thinking. Had I been stuck in traffic and had zero ability to flee the situation and been armed, what would I have done? And if it became necessary to use deadly force, when would have been the right time to present my firearm. As he gets to my window? After he breaks through my window? Before he gets to the door? I would think presenting a firearm too early may further escalate the situation, or force him to draw as well. Conversly, if I present too late, it may be too late altogether.
Please let me know your thoughts on my handling of the situation, and the extended variables I just listed. Thanks in advance for your thoughtful responses.