I think I have a much better idea as to how this all goes than you seem to think. Ive been doing it on a daily basis for over 45 years now, most of that in NPE's, and in that time, have carried most types of handguns you can think of in trying to figure things out. And thats the part here that many dont seem to want to bother doing. Actually putting in the time and effort to figure it out.
My base rule of thumb here has pretty much always been, carry/use what you shoot best with, as best you can, and work backward from there, should you have to. Not the other way around. Its not hard, especially these days with all the good gear available, to figure out how to comfortably carry full, or near full sized guns, on a full, long day basis, in. pretty much any dress.
If you feel the need to carry a gun, shouldnt it be what you shoot best with and are competent and proficent with?
Ive carried full sized, or near full sized handguns, all day, every day, in office environments (dress pants, shirt and tie) through heavy construction environments (hard labor in places you probably cant imagine). With the right holsters, its not hard or uncomfortable. But, you do have to put in the time and effort to figure things out.
As far as gunfights, haven't been in one, and do my best not to have to get into one. But I do, try and do my best to be as well prepared for that unfortunate event, and constantly work on keeping my skills up with what I carry, and do so on a regular basis. As I said before, carrying a gun is only a small part of this. The important part is, what you can do with it, on-demand, and without thinking about having to do any part of it. This isnt about slow-fire, bullseye type shooting here either.
No one ever seems to want to get into the discussion of how and what they do in regular practice, with and from how they carry, to be at least somewhat prepared for, what I assume is why they are carrying their gun. You usually hear crickets, especially from the pocket carry crowd. How about you? Whats your regular practice regimen in that respect?
Look, Ive always taken this very seriously, and feel its my responsibility to be as close to the top of my game as possible here. I continually work hard at it too. That IS your responsibility when you carry a gun. Im not belittling anyone in their choices, just questioning how they came to the decision, and how hard did they actually try otherwise.
No one is claiming to be an operator here, but from the sounds of things, some are light years ahead of a lot of people when it comes down to actual skills with the guns they choose to carry. I find it interesting you choose to try and belittle those who might strive for that.
This will give you an example of how easy it is to actually carry a more realistic gun. I carried both of these on a daily basis pretty regularly, and once I figured out I could carry the Glock, the Seecamp has been in the safe ever since.
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And with those holsters, you can actually carry a larger gun very easily and comfortably. Ive carried a SIG P239 in one in an office/social environment with no trouble at all. Dress type trousers are usually easier for this sort of holster with the larger guns as they are light weight and not as fitted as other types. I tried a pocket holster with my Seecamp and found it to be lacking.