Ive shot a many pistols that have nearly twisted out of my hand entirely from recoil, and yes i was holding on tight as i could at all times, i like the 357 magnum LCR i would consider it, because 357 magnum has a really good one shot stop chance. Long as i can hold on to the gun i dont care about recoil, hell my life would be on the line if i needed to use a LCR so why care about looks or recoil? this is a SD pistol its what it was designed for. Also i reload so short barrels wont be a problem if i use fast burning powders.