I have never seen a Stainless Smith with a forcing cone issue, only one blue gun, and it was a civilians that shot a steady diet of high speed hand loads that, well frankly were in my opinion way too hot... I have always shot midrange velocity lead bullets for practice, saving my 125's for service, or "social Work".. the minor shift in your point of impact will not matter WTSHTF.. Actually, most all of my revolvers, if I sight service ammo to a 6 o'clock hold, the wadcutters, and semi wads, I just cover the bull with my front sight and I'm in the X on a standard B-27 Target from 7 to 25 yards...
For hunting, I will shoot a bit more with high velocity hunting loads, but not thousands of rounds, just some sighters, to make sure it IS going exactly where I'm pointing.
I have never seen a real need to shoot a steady diet of Hi-Velocity ammo.. Under stress you will revert to what you do in practice.. Under stress, it is very doubtful that you will hear the gun go off, feel or notice recoil, or remember how many rounds you have fired.. Steady diets of hard kicking ammo, often times develops more flinches, and bad habits than it cures... Just my two cents...