there is nothing wrong with a healthy respect for recoil. if you want to call me a wimp so be it, but im not a masocist. when i go out to the range i like to throw a few hundred rounds downrange, and though some people think protection from recoil messes with their "machisimo", i always use a slip on limbsavr pad with my rifles. i dont own a big-bore handgun, but if i did, id get pachmyr grips for it.
case in point, my father has arthritic hands from .44mag shootting, and wont shoot my rifles for fear of a detached retina (prior eye problems btw)
you can call me a wuss, but when im 75 ill still be shooting.