Does there necessarity have to be a conflict between efficient training and weapons work?
In the absolute sense, yes, because we're finite beings who can only devote so much time and energy on so many things. It's not at all "either/or", I'm not saying that, I'm saying from a
purely defensive standpoint, the returns you get on H2H training vs. time diminish much more than with other training. With H2H, there's a much bigger "Any Given Sunday" factor... the same amount of time spent making yourself marginally more effective against a specific H2H technique could make life-n-death difference improving a gun skill.
Let's not forget, the last part of MMA stands for ART. You can literally spend hours upon hours mastering the nuances of one move, one position, for one specific situation against an opponent of predetermined strength and ability. Perfecting the "art", as it were. Using that same time to train how to get to and/or retain your gun under any circumstance would, generally, produce better returns, IMO.
Keep in mind, I enjoy the hell out of training and Mr. Flory probably does as well,
I do keep this in mind, that's just my point. The OP, and many of us, probably
don't enjoy or even necessarily prioritize training [to the same extent]. If there is a joy or recreational [or professional] aspect to it, then spending 1 out of every 10 of your conscious hours on it is sensible... but if that approach is purely to preserve your life, I think one is doing themselves a disservice. I only point this out because there's a tendency to confuse specific efficacy with general efficacy.
A sniper is a better shot than I, I'm sure, but that doesn't mean I should go to sniper school to hunt deer. A machine shop is better equipped than I, but it doesn't mean I need to mortgage the house to afford one when a toolbox and some power tools will do. MMA may or may not be the "best" style for a street-fight, but that doesn't mean I should put 12 hours a week into it if self-defense is my goal.
From what I understand Mr. Flory actually has a few guns and carries them, I think what he is saying is that simply having and carrying one is no replacement for skill and ability.
I would disagree. Carrying them is no
guarantee, but it certainly is a replacement for skill and ability. That's the veritable point of a gun as an equalizer. The 82 year old Miss America was able to hold a thief at bay from her walker with a gun precisely for that reason... the younger man was certainly more
able than her, but not
armed.
My question then becomes, if I really want to emphasize defense, do I want to focus my training on something I can use even at 82 from a walker... or something that's a young man's game and considers me "over the hill" before I'm even 40?! If I
enjoy the art of MMA and find recreation or profit in H2H, that's a whole separate story, but purely to preserve my life, the unfocused MMA curriculum is not an efficient path.
To be clear:
MMA is- LITERALLY- a hodge podge of techniques and schools... not necessarily the distillation of the best either. More than anything else it's the unshackling of an athlete's potential allowing them to find what works best for them instead of being constrained to a school or technique. Whether sport or not, that means it's a personal pursuit and passion to find that individual martial art amalgamation.
This is NOT what someone just looking for the basic of self-defense is looking for! They SHOULD be given structured, proven, bare-bones techniques distilled from experience and the paths of others. In this case it would be equipping a person with what they otherwise not have, not unlocking what they did (as in the self-discovery process of MMA). The emphasis is totally different and another reason not to go to MMA for defensive purposes.