. . . hollowpoints in .45 acp , would this look bad?
In my estimation (no credentials or legal standing) you may find a local sheriff or similar agency who will answer the question, "what round do you recommend for effective home defense?"
It would seem to me that if you found yourself having to answer the "why did you use hollowpoints" question, a reply of "it was one of the ammo types recommended by my local police" would show you weren't shopping for "killer bullets" or that kind of thing.
Careful how you ask certain questions of LE personnel, and listen carefully to how they phrase their answers.
Wife and I were once advised by a deputy, "If I were you I'd get a gun. If they come after you, and actually come into your house, and you're scared for your life, the only way you can be sure is to empty the clip. People do that when they're real scared."
In the context of the moment, we understood clearly what he was saying. It was a "just between you and me" kind of remark, in the spirit of "you never heard this from me."
We considered this carefully, and decided to completely avoid a confrontation with the evil jerks in question, despite the damage they had done. We grasped his "advice" but we also grasped that what was implied by this was a whole bunch of very messy red tape and potential liability.
We elected to skip that whole thing and just absorb the [$50,000+] loss without further interaction with the evil ones. I might mention that if we HAD taken confrontation to the next level, a) we would never have recovered our losses, b) $50,000 would have been truly cheap alongside what attorneys, lost employment, and jail would have cost.
Educate yourself well in advance of ever needing it. Ask a LAWYER, not a COP about your options and exposure. The answers will be different. And then, once you're properly educated on your options, make sure you never need that advice, inasmuch as that's possible.