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I've been teaching people to shoot since the 80's and have watched others teach as well
I've seen the successes and the failures, as well as everything in between
As a result I've come up with a method that so far has been foolproof in producing great results

Just my opinion so take it or leave it :)

The first step is to NOT consider any handguns or with an eye towards CCW
Be honest, handguns are difficult for most to master
And how many seasoned shooters actually CCW? A very small percentage
Largely because CCW is a rather large commitment for most people

So instead of forcing a new shooter into a box they may never get out of
Start them out on something easy to shoot and easy to master
A pistol caliber carbine

I personally use the CX4 Storm but there are many fine options today
A PCC is not only easy to shoot but usually fun for most
I can hand one to someone who has never even held a firearm and have them ringing plates in minutes
Usually with a big smile on their face
The motivation and confidence that brings cannot be measured

A PCC like the Storm is light, compact, simple, easy to control, and produces relatively little recoil/report/blast
"But you can't CCW a Storm"
Again even most seasoned shooters never take the leap from a nightstand gun and weekend range day to CCWing
The Storm makes an outstanding home defense gun which is most likely the only place it will be kept

Because the results of starting out this way are usually so good... it keeps the door open to moving to a handgun later
Too often I've seen new shooters with handguns fall on their faces and never become much more than firearm owners
A PCC changes the game so much (in my 1st hand experience) that I often see them become avid shooters
Much more so than with those who start out on handguns

"But it has to be a handgun due to ______"

Without getting into the many reasons why, yes there are times where a handgun is "it"

After all these years and countless platforms/calibers, I've found two combinations that produce the most consistent positive results
The S&W 380 EZ, and the 3" LCR 38 loaded with full wadcutters
Which depends on the person and their ability to learn to operate a semi-auto versus a simple revolver
Either way they both build motivation and confidence better than anything I've ever found
 
Thanks fellas. I think were gonna do some more shooting this weekend. Theres a gun show in my local town so we will go check some stuff out.
Skinny Pete makes good points about ccw pistols. We do have heavy pistols and other low recoil rifles we can shoot to get her accustomed. A PCC makes a lot of sense.
I've been really interested in the new csx 9 for a potential option but I'd rather have her shoot it alongside multiple handguns before I would buy it. I will give an update after the weekend. Thanks for your perspectives.
 
Let her pick her own gun. @Mark_Mark is 100% spot on. Take her to A range with a good instructor and a large selection of rental guns. Let her shoot whatever she wants within the criteria she has chosen. A gun will pick her as much as she picks it. Anything else is just an uneducated guess.
my little sister surpassed me by picking a full size SiG (226 type) in .40, she didn’t like the small mouse guns and said the .40 felt more powerful. And, that’s what in her purse, a full size SIG .40
 
I've never picked a gun for my significant other. She always picks her own, and then I have to go pick something to replace whatever she lays claim to.
And honestly, that's just fine with me.

Quickest way to having a gun she's uncomfortable with and refuses to carry is to convince yourself you're the expert and you "know what she needs"
 
Definitely some good advice given so far. And yes let her pick the gun.

I have or had many different small pistols over the years. My recommendations would be a Shield EZ or Sig P238/Kimber Micro 380, or similar to those. All three are easier to rack and recoil is not bad either.

I have a Kel-Tec P3AT and still carry it at times, But I definitely would not recommend it or other similar pistols to new shooters. The recoil is greater plus the slides are harder to rack.

I also wouldn't overlook a snub nose 38 Special revolver either. Just stay away from the ultra lite models. The lighter models will have more recoil.
 
My wife loves her Taurus 85 revolver. I don't even bother trying to get her to try a semi-auto since she loves the 85 and shoots it well. In fact I bought a Taurus 942 22lr revolver to match so she could train more.

Again let her choose what she wants. Do NOT choose for her.
 
My wife loves her Taurus 85 revolver. I don't even bother trying to get her to try a semi-auto since she loves the 85 and shoots it well. In fact I bought a Taurus 942 22lr revolver to match so she could train more.

Again let her choose what she wants. Do NOT choose for her.

That is what I do. Now she owns more firearms than I do. :what::what: I have some catching up to do.
 
As an old married guy (63 years next month if the Lord allows us to live that long) I learned long ago to let the girl make her own choices in firearms. Now when she enters a jewelry store I go along to slap her hands because she kind of loses her mind but in gun stores I tend to leave her alone. I am opinionated in what I like and so is she.
 
As an old married guy (63 years next month if the Lord allows us to live that long) I learned long ago to let the girl make her own choices in firearms. Now when she enters a jewelry store I go along to slap her hands because she kind of loses her mind but in gun stores I tend to leave her alone. I am opinionated in what I like and so is she.

Right... but thats a wife. 63 years (good for you) and you know to pick you battles. This is a girlfriend.

Maybe my Lorcin recomendation was a lowball suggestion. Perhaps a Heritage Rough Rider is a better idea. She will be shooting all your ammo anyways so keep things cheap. Let her shoot the old junk rimfire ammo up. Spoil her now and you are just setting yourself for failure. If you get married she will expect a pink handled Korth.
 
Maybe my Lorcin recomendation was a lowball suggestion. Perhaps a Heritage Rough Rider is a better idea.
I was under the impression he actually liked his girlfriend.
If you get married
Picking a Lorcin or HRR for her to carry would probably be a good way to make sure that doesn't happen :rofl:
 
I was under the impression he actually liked his girlfriend.

Picking a Lorcin or HRR for her to carry would probably be a good way to make sure that doesn't happen :rofl:

He spends a bunch of money on her she will just get bored, want to be friends, and look for someone more worthy of herself. Let her shoot a RR while your rolling around blasting away and doing flick the wrist reloads like John Wick and you have her right where you want her. Before you know it she will be rubbing your feet and lighting your cigar.
 
As an old married guy (63 years next month if the Lord allows us to live that long) I learned long ago to let the girl make her own choices in firearms.
Congrats doubleh! 63 years!
Right... but that a wife. 63 years (good for you) and you know to pick you battles. This is a girlfriend.
My wife (of 50 years last June) IS my girlfriend, and she had never even touched a gun before she married me. Now she has at least as many guns as I do, maybe more, and she's the one that picked most of them out. I did buy her a Ruger American Rimfire for her birthday the year before last, but she had already told me which one to shop for - the one with the component stock so that she could make it fit her instead of taking it to a gunsmith like she's had to do with every other long gun she's ever bought.;)
 
Congrats doubleh! 63 years!

My wife (of 50 years last June) IS my girlfriend, and she had never even touched a gun before she married me. Now she has at least as many guns as I do, maybe more, and she's the one that picked most of them out. I did buy her a Ruger American Rimfire for her birthday the year before last, but she had already told me which one to shop for - the one with the component stock so that she could make it fit her instead of taking it to a gunsmith like she's had to do with every other long gun she's ever bought.;)

Thats good. I dont recommend a wife AND a girlfriend. Too much drama and takes time away from other passions. We are on 23 years now. Wife is not a shooter but she knew it was part of my life starting as a child so she always accepted it. Dont want a girlfriend....never really did actually...ha!
 
First thing to get in your head is, you will be wrong. I have suggested firearms to my wife only for her to not like but pickup clones of what I suggested months or years later. She demands to have a semi-auto with a manual safety but currently owns three revolvers. Get to a range that does rentals or let her shoot everything you have and go from there. Pay attention to what she shoots best in terms of caliber, size, weight, grip circumference etc to start getting an idea of what she likes and can shoot best. Once you find that one perfect firearm for her, the years of searching will be worth it. Still in progress on my Mrs though...
 
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