Steel-cased rounds won't feed quite as easily as copper-cased rounds.
The polymer Kahrs are intended to have the first round chambered by using the slide release/slide stop -- and Kahr states that in the user manual. (That may be the case with the steel-framed guns, too, but I've not owned one of them...) If you're sling-shoting, that may be part of the problem, when coupled with a steel-cased round.
New mag springs may also be putting TOO MUCH upward pressure on the underside of the slide, when trying to load a first round of a full mag. That will get better over time, as the springs will take a set and lose some tension with use -- particularly if stored fully loaded.
(Note: while Sling-shoting or similar hand-release methods are long favored by many shooters, the US Military has gone back to training loading by using the slide release -- after too many instances of failures to go into battery in combat situations. An acquaintance spent a number of years as an instructor training Special Ops and Special forces troops at Ft. Bragg, and he said that use of the release/stop is the method they now emphasize for handguns.)