You'll like the 357 SIG ! Very accurate! Some say it kicks a little more than the 40, But I shoot along side my son and I can't tell that there is any difference. If there is it may be the "sharpness", but no more real recoil. Reloading is a little more detailed as the 357 SIG is a bottleneck. I just spray my cases down with lube and run though a RCBS 357 Sig Die. If I happen to get some case that have the Glock bulge, I run them through a 40 S&W G-Rx die from Redding before the RCBS die. Accurate #9 powder is a good powder to use as it fill the case to help bullet set back. Watch your bullets and make sure that they don't have a long ogive, the bullet has to have long enough straight sides to fit the neck. Hornady 125 gr. XTP , Speer 125 JHP gold dot and a few others work good. With the Wolf barrel you can shot lead if you like.
Jimmy K