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can't say that I care as much for the northern half of the state, little too trendy around Santa Fe for my tastes
-NOXX
Eh, Noxx, you need to get out of your car more often. Santa Fe is not, repeat, not representative of Northern New Mexico. Try coming up to the border end of Taos County or Mora County. This is a heavily Latino community with very traditional values. Hippies need not apply. Colfax County to the east is very conservative and more Anglo. Raton and Cimmaron are hardly trandy towns. We have the water, broadleaf trees and green grass.
Las Vegas, NM (east of Santa Fe) is a very nice small city of traditional values and comparatively mild winters. Chama out west next to the Jicarilla Apache Nation is a very pleasent mountain mining and logging town, quaint without being trendy.
As far as gun regulation goes I have found it to be reasonable: Open carry, loaded carry in motor vechicles (except snowmobiles), permitt for CCW is easily attainable, cops are mostly gun friendly (in my rural area). The main thing is that you will get back exactly what you put out; i.e. if you are polite, respectful, friendly, rational, and sober you will have very few problems with the residents or the law. If you are arrogant, bossy, prissy, fussy, in-a-hurry, drunk, or stoned, your head will be dribbled on the pavement.
When you are sitting in your truck and a low-rider pulls up with a bunch of teenagers wearing baggy pants and shaved heads you cannot assume trouble. That is the way youth look here. Your attitude is critical to your survival. Everyone has a gun from about 14 on and most carry. So, it pays to be polite and friendly. Similarly, if Che Guevara pulls up on a chopped hog and is staring at you, assume he is curious- a friendly nod or a wave is called for.
If you live here plan on taking time for people. No one is in a hurry. No one would be so rude as to break off a conversation becuase "I have an appointment." Well, maybe newcomers. The Spanish culture of NM is based on a certain amount of courtesy, friendliness, and openess. Oh, there are some de La Gente in the cities that have soured and are grimly ignornat of social graces. For the most part, standing in line at the bank, the supermarket ,etc. is an opportunity to talk with your neighbors. You can make a new friend in about ten minutes. Also keep in mind that traditional culture dictates that you do not offend someone with the truth; i.e. no one will hurt your feelings by telling you to your face that the color you just painted your truck sucks. That would be rude. Rude is very bad.
Also, La Vendetta is alive and well here. Step on someone's toes one time and you will have an enemy for a very long time. My neighbors are still fighting over what happend back in the early 1940s when water rights were lost.
Keep in mind that when you take on a perp, you are taking on his entire family. Family outranks the law. A youth stealing from you is bad. Hurting him means a war. You have to learn how to deal with trouble without making it worse. People here stand by their kids through all kinds of bad stuff. I shake my head sometimes.
NM is a fantastic place to live but is not for everyone.