By far my favorite 9mm is my CZ 75 PCR.
I would suggest a .22 first to save the wallet and also to help her with fundamentals. A buckmark camper is lightweight and she will like it.
A few of the guns mentioned, for instance, some of the CZs, have such a long double action trigger pull, that they just won't work for me. They feel good, but I can't reach the trigger without rotating the gun in my hand.