Timing: Bad, or maybe not.

jmr40

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I'm 65. I've never been the most prolific game killer, but I've had my share of success and killed a variety of game. Whitetails, black bear, turkey, lots of duck, a few geese, fox, coyote, as well as most small game. I've hunted in 5 states and overall had a lot of fun.

At this point the only game animal left on my bucket list is an elk. I've had 2 unsuccessful DIY hunts in Colorado. I just got in the truck, drove west, found public land with an OTC tag and went at it. Had a great time, but the odds are pretty long when you don't know what you're doing. But I knew I'd never kill one sitting on the couch here in GA.

There is a group of hunters locally who have made the trip to CO for over 20 years. They usually take 4-6 guys and have never failed to bring back at least 1 elk, often 2 or 3. Which are pretty decent odds for out of state hunters on public land with OTC tags. These guys know what they are doing.

This year they invited me to go with them. Was supposed to leave today. Had to say no, maybe next year. Two days before the invite I got confirmation that I had Prostate Cancer and would be recovering from surgery about the time they left. Confirmation of cancer and having to turn down the hunt of a lifetime in the same week was a double gut punch.

The surgery was 15 days ago. I'm well on the road to recovery, but nowhere near ready to hunt. This season will be a bust even for local hunting.

The Doc assigned to my case is an older guy who only does conventional open surgery. Many people urged me to change to another Doc who could do it robotically. That would have moved the surgery until December or January and allowed me to hunt this year. But I told the Doc I wanted it cut out ASAP. Which proved to be a good decision. The surgery ended up being more complex than anticipated and could not have been done robotically anyway. They would have had to just sew me up and re-do it conventionally if they'd tried with a robot.

All of the cancer was confined to the Prostate which is great news. But was very near the edge in one spot. Had I waited a few more months it may well have spread elsewhere.
 
That sucks, but I think you made a wise decision.

Sometimes we forget it's only an "XXX" and forget the big picture.

Good luck, and hopefully it's a rapid recovery!
 
Timing is everything. Take the year, heal up and go bust an elk with your buddies next fall. If you kill one, you can play the "I can't lift anything heavy" card and have them trundle it out for you....
 
Sorry to hear your news , but glad to hear that everything went smoothly . My hunting season is also a little messed up this year . I had a mole removed about 2 weeks ago . It looked like a big age spot . The dermatologist let it go for 2 years before he wanted to do a biopsy on it . When they first did a biopsy on it they said that it was a A typical mole . I got a call from the doctor today and they did another biopsy on the tissue that was removed and they found melanoma . I have to have it done again . We are about the same age . I haven’t started drawing my social security yet , but I am going to go sign up for it now . You just never know how much longer you are going to live . I don’t want to leave money on the table . IMG_2134.jpeg
 
they found melanoma

I figured that if I ever had cancer melanoma would be it. Let's just say I've lived a very high-risk lifestyle out in the sun and took no precautions years ago. So far no issues with that. But Melanoma and Prostate cancer both have very high recovery rates if caught early.

Guys, if you want to keep hunting into your later years stay on top of these things. A routine blood test back in April showed very slightly elevated PSA numbers. They asked me to come back in July for another blood test which showed the same. They did a biopsy in August which confirmed the cancer. I never had any symptoms. It was only detected by lab work on blood samples.
 
Best wishes for your recovery! I had my prostate removed roboticly 8 years ago, no further problems. This February I had to have 3 vertebrae fused in my back. Back has healed but nerve problems remain in my feet! All we can do is to keep swinging, and make the best of It! I have had 2 opportunities to hunt elk in CO, I hope you get yours!
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Hunting with your buddies is unforgettable. Not only the hunt, but also the campfire and the whole experience .
I hope you go next year.
Best wishes....my father in law had the robotic procedure in his mid eighties. He recovered quickly and is playing golf again.
 
High PSA numbers caught mine a couple years ago. I get blood tests every 6 months now for the next 5 years.
Glad they found yours and got it out, for us old guys it's almost inevitable to get it.
Just take it easy and get healed up soon.
Ya know, I knew (not really well) a guy that had a number of “just happens” catch a very aggressive form of prostate cancer at the ripe age of 29… makes a 36 year old count his blessings…
 
Ya know, I knew (not really well) a guy that had a number of “just happens” catch a very aggressive form of prostate cancer at the ripe age of 29… makes a 36 year old count his blessings…

29 is really early. I have a friend whose life was probably saved because he had Covid 2 years ago. He was a healthy 45 and almost never saw a Doc. He didn't need to go to the hospital, but just couldn't shake Covid. After a month they did a complete physical and found elevated PSA numbers. Had they caught it much later it would have been too late for him.

Once diagnosed the only decision I struggled with was to have the Doc I was working with remove it conventionally or change to another Doc and have it done robotically. All my research said robotically had faster recovery and fewer side effects. But I'd have to delay surgery for 1-3 months if I changed Docs. Ultimately getting it done sooner rather than later made my decision for me. And based on how close mine was to spreading outside the Prostate I feel like I did the right thing.
 
Sometimes Dr's. are a little too hesitant do surgery. last summer I went to my foot Dr. three times with a swollen toe, he said it's nothing a few months later It was still swollen and I went back to see him and he sent me for an MRI. A few days later he called me and said I had a bone infection and the tip of the toe would need to come off!
I get a blood test every 6 months, and one thing that is checked is my PSA level. My family Dr. (different from foot Dr.) said most men will die with prostrate cancer than from it, I am not taking any chances.
 
I hope you a very speedy and complete recovery.

My grandfather was a two time prostate cancer survivor before his third bout took him out at 72. The first time was the year I was born and he was only 42 then and he had the doctor remove as little of his prostate as possible, the second time he was 50 and they removed the rest of the prostate after that he was cancer free for twenty years until it reappeared in the surrounding tissue when he was 70. He'll have been gone for five years on 10/10

I started demanding a PSA test every year with my physical ever since he was diagnosed the last time but sadly, a lot of Dr's will fight you to keep you from getting tested when you're as young as I am.
 
Cancer sucks the big one but if you heal you bought yourself a few more seasons at least.... don't rush the recovery, lost my dad to a post op blood clot.
 
Thanks for the positive comments. I'm recovering well. I just need time to get my strength back.
Cancer is one affliction that we all have to live with especially as we get older. The medical profession does a good job treating cancer and you have a good chance to recover well. My wife has two brother-in-laws and I have a good friend all have had prostate cancer and with treatment several years later the cancer has not returned. My wife had breast cancer in 1994 and after 29 years her cancer has not returned. I had basil cell skin cancer on my face in 1987 and a squamous cancer on my right hand about 5 years ago and the treatment worked.. When it happens all we can do is go to the specialists and take care of ourselves. My opinion is that If you don't drink alcohol or use tobacco you have a better chance of living longer. People like us who love the outdoors, the sunrise the sunset, the wind in our faces, and to feel the cold on a winter morning have a big advantage on those who just sit indoors. Best wishes in your recovery and get back outside and do things you like as quickly as your can. Jack O'Connor of 270 Winchester fame was involved in a bad car wreck that almost killed him. He said the day his recovery started was the day his gunsmith delivered a new rifle that he was having built. Don't dwell on the cancer, just bite your lip and get back to normal.
 
I have had the unglamorous experience twice to watch folks younger than I am now (I am 41) to die from cancer.

Both times they waited too long to be examined and be operated upon and that more than likely caused death rather than recovery. No one can really say for sure.

You definitely made the right decision in my book.

Sucks to hear about your season this year. There are worse ways to miss hunting seasons though.
 
I've had three skin versions and the prostate version. I'll be tested every 6 months for the prostate version for the next 4 years and I get a mole check every year. It's like preventative maintenance, better to get it done early before it becomes "breakdown maintenance".
 
Update.

It's been 4+ weeks since the surgery. I'm about 99% better. Even though I lost about 20 lbs I've gotten out of shape from being inactive. I started walking around the neighborhood after about a week and am gradually getting back but have a way to go to get back to where I want to be.

The worst part now is the lack of bladder control. Others who have had the surgery I've talked to say it takes 2-3 months after surgery in most cases and sometimes up to a year. That is improving, but still frustrating.

I'm not supposed to lift over 10 lbs for a few more weeks, but the Doc says walk all I want. Since my rifle weighs about 7.5 lbs I took it for a walk in the woods yesterday while wearing hunter orange. I promised my wife that I'd only shoot a true trophy and would call for help to get it out.

It was good to be out in the woods and I didn't really expect to be able to do so this soon a month ago. But I quickly found that walking on hills and uneven terrain was a lot harder than walking on the street. I wasn't able to go far from the truck.

I seriously doubt I'll be in any shape to really hunt this Fall but should be ready before turkey season in the Spring. My goal is to be ready for Colorado next Fall.
 
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