That's me, I don't buy supplies if I have a bill to pay or my kids need something. But sometimes all is going good, you buy supplies and the bottom falls out of everything. It happens. My girlfriend knows of every gun I buy and doesn't get mad unless she can't shoot them!
I was married for 24 years and hardly ever spent a dime on me. Was the epitomy of a family man. Then one day she ran off with someone else. She was a stay at home mom for 18 years then wanted to go to RN school. I worked two jobs to get her degree, then she left me for another man
So what I'm saying is, sometimes you just have to treat yourself for your hard work and a good non controlling woman will undetstand