JohnKSa,
Thank you!
That link shares what my Mentors & Elders shared with me as little kid.
I was born in 1955! I recall even back then M&E's including my maternal grandma, passing forward such lessons on "how do you want to be perceived?"
Grandma, looked like a "grandma". Apron, those "old lady shoes" and all around the house. Hat when dolled up...but she kept herself armed. Nobody really "saw" anything but a grandma. She did not "pull out" her money. At a store and strangers around "put it on the ledger, I'll square up later". She did not want folks seeing what she had, and where kept.
Folks advertise w-a-y too much! Folks had cars busted into and hotel rooms too attending shooting matches. Out of town plates and it does not take much to tell whom is in town for the shooting match - or golf game for a Corp meeting.
I would show up - out of town, leave my vehicle with trusted friends and use another local vehicle with that state's tags. My guns? Looked like anything but guns. Two cars were "hit" at a restaurant one night on either side of the one I was driving.
Mine had a baby bottle and teething ring on the back seat.
The two either side had NRA stickers, "if it flies it dies" , and basically screamed guns.
Buck 110s. Never cared for these, personally the Case fit my hands better. Still folks "read" Buck 110s. Now this is back when gun racks and guns were in the racks.
We really did not have a problem - still problems happened. See a fellow in this new-fangled camo , folks watching, see the Buck 110, see the stickers on the newfangled hunting truck/ SUV.
Few folks got in some problems being followed out to the woods. One reason I CCW while hunting - gotta get to and fro.
Some fellas get the drop on you /yours and all you have are long guns - whatcha gonna do?
Concealed means concealed. Always has, always will to me.
I got a $2 carton cutter to open boxes with, easy to use one-handed, and it does work real well for defensive purposes.
Got a inexpensive screwdriver, reversible, like folks use for working on PCs, office equipment.
Opens boxes, and again, works fine for defensive purposes.
Do I have a knife? Depends. Often times "need to get a knife I guess", or "May I borrow your knife?" or "Guns? Guns are bad, why on earth do folks need guns with cell phones and 911?.
Oh yeah, been invited to learn how to shoot, given literature about handgun laws in state and all sorts of stuff, including going hunting.
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Yes I asked for assistance on "what knife for me" her on THR a few years ago I chose two, this was a social experiment.
Also I was testing the knives, these did not hold up. My Case slip-joint / pocketknife did - then I lost that one (dumb mistake on my part losing a Trapper Jr, with CV blades)
Not having a knife, and folks noticing - I was offered a Sebenza, tested a Benchmade and other things...
Did not accept, or given back after some more social experimenting and testing and evaluations.
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I got the right to be wrong. Part of my "wrong" is - I used to use my hands and use hand tools.
I apprenticed for this. Dremels were not even around then. Foredom Flex shafts were...I was NOT allowed to use powered tools. I started apprenticeship , sweeping floors and taking out the trash.
Handmade stuff, not stampings. Quality not Quantity. One of a kind - not mass produced.
Over the years all I grew up has 'changed'. I understand the mix of new technologies, how Chrysler had 3 times the square footage of Honda. How the Chrysler plant had to physically drag the chassis many times for various steps,and it took 7 folks to weld.
Honda, robotic. One on the track, did not have to "drug around". Robot did precise welding, and Honda produced a better car, with half the employees and 1/3 the square footage.
Honda USA made a better car, and way fewer problems than Chrysler.
I did the research too many years ago.
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Full retail at a Feed Store and the Barhead Trapper trapper was about $ 31 with tax included. Fit and finish is superb, walk and talk , sharp as a razor out of the box, and has kept its edge.
Why does a $$$ knife cost $$$ when the previous morning the "idea" was born and the Computer fired up? They call these "custom knives" sometimes too...
Prototype messed with , virtual model designed. Send this downstairs to the machine that makes one out of the best priced metal bought on the market, and one "manufactured".
Tweak a few things, feed the metal bought on the market at the best price for that "lot" and give it a "name" so that metal, same as others are using - is "better."
Marketing folks gotta eat too...
Now umpteen of these are manufactured at blinding speeds, no character, no soul, no "feeling".
Price is based on marketing, overhead, advertising, taxes , insurance, legal...
and the oldest "bidness" thinking ever.
"A person feels a nickel pencil writes better than one that only costs them two pennies".
Psychological, self esteem, mob mentality, all sort of "things" come into play.
Those "limited" knives of 100 - 2000 are sold. Now repeat the process, do some razzle-dazzle on blade shape, finish, new word the buying folks are in need of, need a "new and improved knife" and market that puppy.
Seen it over the years, been right there when it was going on. Not my way, made me a bit sad, angry and upset.
Then again "bidness is bidness" and folks will always want a sense of belonging, acceptance, and will spend monies for these feelings.
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Customer of mine in the clothing business. One of his lines were men's oxford shirts. Buyers from Dept Stores bought that shirt. Same exact shirt - except the label and the price tag.
Folks would see me wearing my usual oxford shirt, long sleeve, button down collar, mention - Dillards, MMCohn, Lord & Taylors, Kohls and whomever these nice stores in various towns.
At the time retail at a small store, family chain this shirt was - $10.99 retail. Lord & Taylors in Dallas got $22.99 for it. In PA one store got $32.99 for it.
Buddy of mine gave me labels as joke - "you can have as expensive a shirt you want after you pay the $10.99 retail you been paying".
NY store got $39.50 for "my shirt".
Just like some of new plastic money folks buy one bottle of good spirits. They refill it with "bar" scotch, whiskey, rye, - whatever.
Bottom line - in my day anyway, "What are you getting for monies spent?"
Old boss said " folks will buy a cow chip if on sale, marked down , on reduction or touted loud enough".
Another boss said " Three factors determine the price of all goods and services- Greed, Greed and Greed.
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Canister oil filters back in the day. Same filter for a Chevy or Ford. Ask for a Lincoln or Caddy filter - and you paid more for it.
Sales reps always asked for the Chevy or Ford one and used the money saved for something else.
Gates radiator hose another example.
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Call me "wrong" call me a relic, call me old fashioned.
Just watch a fellow make a pocketknife , temper the back- springs, fit the pivot holes, and all the steps to make a quality slip joint/ pocketknife, that sells for $40 retail.
Look at the old cigar box grandparents left folks with old pocket knives, made this way that were used so much. Pick one up and feel the character , soul, and the feeling that went into making it.