While living in N.J. in my early 30's, I went to a "social gathering" (a party) where I could see I was very much out of place. In a room full of yuppies a conversation broke out about guns and self defense. I have never seen so many bobble heads bouncing up and down when someone said that guns should be taken away from everyone except --- fill in the blank.
I felt very neutral about guns and never read anything pro or con up to that point in life but I felt a bit spunky that night and posed the question, "does anyone feel they have the right to defend their home with a gun"?
Very few in the room except my wife, who I never talked to about this before, said yes. Many suggested that if I had a gun there would be a good chance I would use it on a family member.
That about did it. I told those people that was the most appalling thing I have ever heard and gave it the ole' who do you think I am and who do you think you are even suggesting something like that?
Then I nearly cleared the room by saying (not true at the time but great effect), "I am going to join the pistol club here in town tomorrow". That led to even more spirited discussion which ended by me saying, "I will never rely on a telephone, even one with 911 on speed dial to protect my home".
The fun part was that I was making this up as I went along and enjoying the reactions from the bobble heads but later when my wife asked me about joining the pistol club, I said, "yeah I was serious", still having some fun but the thinking process had already begun. I didn't even own a gun at the time.
A year later I was president of that club and an active match shooter. A year after that "she" was a full fledge member too.
Now the (911) I use for protection has a (1) in front of it.