P97
Member
You mentioned 40 caliber. Have you tried 9mm and 45 as well and decided on the 40? My advise is what some have already mentioned. Rent or borrow as many different guns as you can and shoot them. Different guns fit different people and a gun that fits you will be the best choice for you. You will be able to shoot it better, and enjoy shooting it. No one can tell what is best for you. You have to find it for yourself. Shot placement is more important than caliber. Regardless of caliber, where you can put that bullet is the most important thing. JMHO