Hi,
Since you load your own, and since you are obviously someone who puts a lot of rounds downrange win .45ACP, I'd recommend a revolver for active shooters like you . . . namely the S&W 625.
The only problem I've found with my 625 was that it was so "boring" to shoot for hours at a time. It shoots that "big, dumb, slow" bullet we love so much, and has the pleasant, firm push of the .45ACP vs. the sharp, sting of the .357.
Boring indeed too . . . it shoots offhand one hole groups all day long at 10-15 yards. Coke cans at 50 yards offhand? Usually six for six. At 75 yards . . . 4 or 5 out of six. BORING.
REALWORLD SPEED?
Moonclip reloads are so fast with practice, vs. speedloaders, that some of the shooting sport competitions (I won't name the one) finally banned the moonclip revolvers from competing with the guys with their .38s and .357s.
Yep, too many crybabies got tired of getting totally waxed in action revolver matches by guys with their moonclips. It is rare in shooting sports for rules to be made that retard the advancement of better shooting firearms but this was the case. Gunfights ain't fair either . . . so I want the smoothest, fastest system. In a revolver, that's the moonclip!
How fast can moonclip revolvers shoot in the stress of handgun competitions? In the hands of smooth "moonies" a 625 can beat out single stack 1911 shooters sometimes! Jerry Miculek won the Steel Challenge Nationals one year . . . after the final two shooters were him and another top shooter using a tricked out 1911.
Here's TWELVE rounds, in less than THREE SECONDS out of a 625, from the best . . .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uisHfKj2JiI
ALSO FASTER FOR "MERE MORTALS" LIKE ME . . .
Heck, just for fun, at the end of an IPSC match once, they held a special all-steel match for "any open-sighted" handgun at an area match I competed in. Eighteen steel targets . . . the match started with an UNLOADED gun and there was ONE manditory reload.
Most of the 30 or so shooters went to their high cap. Paras, STIs, etc. in .45ACP. A few went to 9mm Glocks with the 33 round Model 18 clips.
UNLOADED HANDGUN . . . 18 TARGETS . . . ONE MANDITORY RELOAD!
Just to have fun with the bottom feeders, and not expecting to win, I put away my tricked out 1911 and signed up with my chopped barrel Model 25-2 in .45ACP . . . just to get a reaction and have some good-natured fun.
"How do you think you will win with THAT?, one shooter asked. Well, I DO have to reload TWICE, if I don't miss at all . . . and I plan to shoot fast and not miss!
I probably also added something to the effect of "Gee, I'd HATE to get waxed by a wheelgun." You know how much good-natured fun and kidding can go on at a match.
Bottom line, I waxed 'em all, shooting a fast double action and enjoying the fast reload time with moon clips. Heck, I can reload with moon clips just as fast as I can reload my 1911s . . . and I shoot my wheelguns real fast better too in pin matches and such. I don't know why that's so. I guess it just FITS me better.
Here's my wonderful "wax applicator," alongside my Kimber lightweight. I use both for CCW, though the Kimber is MUCH easier to conceal and I only wear the 25-2 when the season or wardrobe is right:
THE WIFE . . .
My wife MUCH prefers shooting the .45 revolver vs. my .357 and .38 revolvers . . . although my Model 65 in .357 is also a favorite of hers (as long as I stick to .38spl. handloaded wadcutters that don't kick hard.
BTW . . . since you are a reloader . . . load plenty of practice rounds with 200gn. LSWC lead bullets over about 5.3 gns. of Unique or its equivalent. Your wife will love the VERY gentle .45 push with that load and she'll be more apt to enjoy shooting vs. those danged hot factory loads that I see non-reloaders bring to the range. You know what I'm talking about!
EVERYONE NEEDS A K FRAME SMITH TOO . . . IN EITHER .38 OR .357!
There are tons of 'em that were once cop guns and they can be had fairly cheap. They make great house guns, car guns, extra guns . . . or primary guns too, of course.
One thing the K-frame Smith .357s have goin' over the 625 is weight and smaller frame size, which makes 'em easier to conceal. Then again, that's not one of your primary needs for the wheelgun which tips the scales in recommending you a 625.
Recoil? I see zero problems with the 625, even in the 3" gun size. Heck, I prefer a full-house, hot .45ACP load in my 25-2 vs. the same in my Model 27 in .357.
MOONCLIP VS. SPEEDLOADERS?
Yes, you can load .45 Auto Rim cartridges for your 625 and get speedloaders to carry 'em in if you wish. I have a few hundred rounds of .45AR. However, I can get a BUNCH of moonclips for the cost of just one speedloader in .45AR.
YOU
CAN SAFELY LOAD .45ACP ROUNDS IN A 625 WITHOUT USING MOONCLIPS TOO! I do it all the time at the range. You just easily pluck 'em out with your fingernails, one at a time. No problem.
My 25-2 is my favorite handgun of any type . . . even over my 5" barreled 625. If I were buying a new one I'd probably go 3" in a 625. I love 3" barrels!
T.