I live in a fairly rural area. The only ranges I know of are unsupervised and often make shift.
I live in a fairly rural area, too, and I know of about five ranges and shooting clubs CLOSER to my house that the primary one I belong to.
Not everybody lives where you live, and lives the way you live. Advice isn't tailored to you, or to anyone, unless they give enough information for us to do so.
Besides that I am sort of agorophobic, somewhat anti-social and don't care to join any thing.
Well, that's you. That's not most people. Don't project your own flaws onto the "everyone" who might come here to post a question.
I think a lot of the advice we give noobs is totally impossible hot air.
Totally impossible? Really?
At none of the places that I shoot, are there range officers or supervisors.
Ok. That's where YOU are. Not many people live where you are. Why would we only give advice that's applicable to where YOU are?
No body rents guns or has a variety you or your wife can try out. The closest thing I see to training classes are a few CHP classes.
Ok. That's where YOU are. Not many people live where you are. Why would we only give advice that's applicable to where YOU are? Your situation is not representative of very many other people's situations.
When on the forums I read when somebody asks "What sort of gun should I get?" Or,"What shall I get my wife?" they are invariably told to go to a range and try a different guns out. I don't know of any place that does that or offers training.
Ok. That's where YOU are. Not many people live where you are. Why would we only give advice that's applicable to where YOU are? Your situation is not representative of very many other people's situations.
I often feel the noob would be better served by the advice: Get a double action 22 revolver and some cheap bullets. Go out and shoot it. Be careful where you point it. When you aren't ready to shoot keep your hands off the gun.
Ok. If you think that's good advice, give someone that advice. It will undoubtedly not be the best advice MOST people could be given, but it's yours and you're free to give it if you think it's helpful.
Look, back in 2010, the census recorded that over 8 out of every 10 people lived in urban or urbanized areas while less than 2 out of that 10 lived in rural places. Why would we assume that folks who come here and ask for help live in some backwater so remote they can't find a rental range within a few hours' drive? That's a silly thing for us to assume.
If they TELL US they can't, that's a different story. But if they just say, "Hi, I'm interested in shooting and my wife wants to learn, too, how should I get started?" why would we instantly assume they're antisocial backwoodmen who won't be able to find a well-appointed range and some good folks to help them find a gun they like and get them started with good fundamentals?