My divorce was final 15 years ago. I was young and foolish and ignorant. I was in a 'coyote chewing his leg off to get out of the trap frame of mind'. Without any plan I just took a few things with me - work clothes and boots - when I moved out thinking that all the rest would get sorted out with some sort of fairness.
The local sheriff (and most cop houses around here) has a deal where you can surrender any firearms and they'll get melted down for scrap. She took advantage of that pretty quick. I was not aware until she told me later and the sheriff doesn't ask any questions about who rightly owns the guns.
I have no history of violence except for punching holes in walls on a couple of memorable occasions. I've never been accused of or investigated for domestic violence.
When it came time to sort out the division of property a year later she said that she trashed the guns because she didn't know what I might do and feared for her life and the lives of her children. Hearing that was actually more painful than the loss of the guns.
With hindsight, I'm clear the she did this as a mean, nasty get-back for my leaving. It was not the worst thing she ever did.
The guns had only sentimental value. One was a Sears bolt action .22 LR and the other some sort of Russian surplus military rifle, also from Sears, both purchased around 1962 or so. My dad taught me how to shoot and how to be safe and respect firearms when I was 7 or 8 and I was allowed to shoot at cans and stuff while he was off cutting brush and pruning the Christmas tree ranch on some hill property we owned. I was the most careful and proper eight year old at the time. With the guns anyway.
I never went shooting after about the age of 18. Didn't pay much attention to the guns, they just lived in the back of the closet. I would like to replace the Russian rifle, don't really want to hunt down a cheapie 40 year old Sears .22 bolt action.
I recently bought a Mosin-Nagant 91/30 thinking that was what my dad had bought, but it's not quite right. The old rifle had the hammer and sickle with a wreath around it stamped on the receiver and the bolt and the trap door below the receiver look the same. But the forehand and the cleaning rod under the muzzle are not how I remember them. The cartridges don't look right either, the ones I remember were longer than the 7.62R by about an inch, but I'm sure it was a 7.62mm.
Anyone out there know Soviet Milsurp? Is it just my childhood memory not quite right or is there some other rifle (not a 91/30) that chambered a longer 7.62 cartridge? Maybe it's just that my fingers were shorter then?
I posted the thread wondering if others here had had a similar divorce story. No one I know has had their guns melted down, but I've heard friend of a friend stories.
I've got a much better gun collection now and the ex remarried and lives on another continent. The kids are grown and living their lives. I'm still keeping my eye open for a better model wife. I'm very particular about who I marry now.
AL