Another, from the first, 10MM fan here. I had an early Bren Ten, then a succession of 10MM revolvers and semi-autos, including a Delta. I used the "real" 10MM factory ammo, and equivalent hand loads in my guns. My Delta had the least case head support of any 10MM semi-auto I'm aware of. The 10MM case is a strong one, so never had a case actually blow. But I was concerned enough about all that unsupported brass hanging out over the barrel throat, to have BarSto fit one of the ramped 10MM barrels they'd started making. I much preferred my Kimber 10MM, with the very well supported factory barrel.
I'm a long time 19111 guy, but I always felt my 1911s got beat up pretty good with the real 10MM ammo. I still like 1911s, and the 10MM cartridge, just not in the same gun
I had several S&W 10XX guns, a Glock, etc. The S&Ws became my favorites. Like the Glocks, they handle the real 10MM ammo without any durability issues, and without resorting the extra heavy recoil springs, dual recoil springs, buffers, etc.
Meant to add that hot 10MM has recoil way in excess of the hottest 9MM +P+ I've ever used. The .40, in heavy Buffalo Bore type loads, is closer but the difference between heavy .40 and heavy 10MM loads is, as sparkyv indicated, "noticeable"...