Yup - the Max in a longer barrel or the 357/44 are kind of a no-man's land for bullets, they'll tear apart most pistol bullets. Bullet failures might be ok for small game hunting, but for deer, I want something harder.
I haven't recovered a Hotcor from a 357/44 yet to measure expansion, and I never used them in the Max Contender (Hornady SSP-SP, now discontinued). But based on wound cavity, I'm getting expansion.
I spoke extensively with Speer before I built my 357/44. I had shot the Max off and on for over 10yrs before I built the B&D, so I knew the struggle to find appropriate bullets was real. I had the additional "frustration" of needing to draw the bullets to .357" for my Redhawk, so I was concerned with jacket integrity and core separation on game. Everything has been hunky doree so far for me. Love the bullet.
I do use the 158 and 180 XTP's for practice loads. I can't get the 180 XTP to the same speeds I can push the Hotcor, as oddly as that might seem - I can push the rifle bullet a lot harder before my primers cry uncle. I also have another 357mag standard cylinder for my Redhawk, so I can run 38 and 357mag practice loads too.