jad0110
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A heavy bullet will add to the felt recoil. I would suggest the newly re-released standard pressure 125gr Federal Nycad .38 Special round. It is one of the best non+P SD rounds available anywhere on the planet.
I second the 125 grn std pressure Federal Nyclad, which just hit the market again after a long hiatus. If I were recoil sensitive to 38+P in my 642, the Nyclad would be my top pick.
An even lighter recoiling load that would have no problem with penetration would be a high quality 148 grain wadcutter load. Fairly light recoil and more than adequate penetration. No expansion, but penetration is the more important of those two factors anyway.