44 magnum, No regrets
I guess .357's are okay, but the gun frames tend to lighter and recoil is generally harsher because of it. As for using 38spl for HD, there's a reason most LEO's gave it up in lieu of the 9mm or .40 cal.
Loading a 44mag with magnum loads for HD is probably not the best choice as the bullet moves too fast to deliver it's full stopping power for small things like people. I use 44spl rounds for HD personally.
The 44 has the following things going for it:
- It's versatile by being able to fire 44spl, 44mag, and shotshells
- You will always find ammo for it anywhere
- It can do anything the 357 can do and more
- The heavier frame makes it more stable (like match rifles)
- The size of the gun itself is a deterrent
- The sound is less sharp and is less likely to cause hearing damage (although it rattles your guts a bit more)
- There's nothing in North America you can't kill with it
- 300gr JHP is a nice round number
- Reloading gives you nearly unlimited options
- It's fun to catch the looks at your range when you fire your first magnum round of the session
- Owning one gives you license to quote Dirty Harry lines to all your friends
- When your shooting buddy pulls out his 9mm ammo, tell him "it's cute" right before dropping one of his rounds into a spent casing from your 44. Laugh cynically when you do this.
I bought my 44 after putting the question to myself: If I could only own 1 gun, what would it be? I have no regrets. That's just my take on it.
-MW