She wants the full blown shoot, kill, gut, butcher, eat process on the boy. His other uncle (my best friend) got the same text messages on the turkey hunting trip. For that he can go 410 and get them close, but I'm scratching my head on finding a Crickett sized rifle that won't give him a recoil fear that scares him off from hunting.
You have two choices, go down in caliber, or down-load. In your case, I'd look for a used .223 Rem with a fast twist barrel and use a heavy bullet designed for deer.I'm kinda at a loss. I want him to enjoy it but I can't figure out how to make it work. I may have to buy a gun but I'm not coming up with anything that way either. 300blk seems a great choice but in a bolt or single shot?
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You are right he seems like a nice kid and seems to young and small for deer hunting with a rifle. Start off with a small 22 hunting for squirrels. It almost seems like his mother wants to scare him out of ever hunting again anywayI have no problem with a young kid going hunting or shooting guns but they certainly need a good bit of experience before I would want them to actually use a rifle deer hunting without some more experience. I have known 7-8 year olds that were perfectly capable of shooting a rifle and hunting deer and were successful in doing so but they had been shooting since they were five and had "it". My own three kids have been around guns since they were born and none of them were ready to kill a deer at 7.
That's not to say the kid can't shoot a bunch in the next couple of months and become proficient enough to hunt with his uncle. I imagine a bolt .223 or several other low recoil rifles, assuming legality, would work for a kid that age that has some practice under his belt.
PS I know plenty of 35 year old men that have no business in a deer stand with a rifle.