He did say he's seen more 9mm and .380 than any other.
This is a non-sequitur. Quantity does not equal percentage, and percentage is what's important. Since more people get shot with 9mms, it stands to reason that more people die from 9mms regardless of how effective the caliber is. I suspect deadmeat's data would look something like this:
Caliber......# of shootings...........# of deaths
.380..............400........................220
9mm..............300........................200
.45................100........................85
While he would see more deaths, quantitatively, from .380 and 9mm, when you compare the actual death
rate from the different calibers, you would see that .380 has a ~55% death rate, 9mm has a 66% death rate, and .45 has an 85% death rate. This is why percentages are most important. I've read many times that .22LR is the most common fatal gunshot wound in the US, but that's obviously not because it's a highly lethal round. It's simply because everyone and their mother owns a .22 so lots of people get shot with them (but the death
rate from .22 GSWs would be quite low).