I find this disgusting, but have first hand knowledge that this IS how Universities are today. They don’t care about actual safety, but that everyone FEELS safe.
Last year, an RA and I stopped a 25ish year old man on Meth from breaking into our dorm at two in the morning. This man had attempted to rape someone in the park across the street from us, and then when she got away came across the street to our building. He had smashed the vandal proof window, was screaming threats, covered in blood and other bodily substances, and reeked of alcohol. An RA and I held him at bay for seven minutes after I called 911 until the Police arrived (we know this was not the first call, someone reported the rape about four or five minutes before I called 911). The police building is two blocks away from our building, and we have a dedicated police force that doesn’t leave the campus.
The next day we had to meet with the Resident Director (grad student that was in charge of the building). We were written up for “Use of violence”, “Damage of University Property” (broken pool que), “disorderly conduct”, and “Failure to follow directions of University Housing and Dining services Staff”. She scolded us for not… and I quote… “care-fronting” the situation. We “Con-fronted” the situation, and didn’t think about the other persons feelings, and life experiences when we chose to skewer him with a pool que. I laughed and told her she could deal with the next meth guy, and then get back to me on how well “Care-fronting” the situation worked for her.
I was further told not to talk about the incident to ANYONE because it would make people feel “unsafe” living here. The school closed that entrance until they could fix the door. I heard her tell someone that the door was slammed and that the window had cracked. A lot of people knew that something had happened because they heard the screaming of the attempted rape, or the police and all the noise at two in the morning, but the dorm would not admit it. I have had other examples of this type of thing too, and I can assure you there are more incidents than I know of that occur.
This incident, and every other one I have been involved in angers me to no end, because they have done nothing to actually improve safety. They have lied to the residents, because they want them to “feel safe” which in my opinion endangers everyone.