I always clean my molds with rubbing alcohol very very thoroughly and then smoke it with matches. Using a lighter didn't deposit carbon inside the mold.Might have to clean and smoke it more than once. Sometimes the slightest nook can cranny can be a pain to clean.
I do the very same thing with my molds. I clean them with a little rubbing alcohol thoroughly and smoke the mold with matches. When I first started casting I used a candle but then I found that by using matches it was a lot more easier and it's very effective.