Another thread veered a little and we were referred to this venue. The question was "When is it a good time to tell potential romantic partners about your guns?" Or something similar. I got into this after being married for a little while, but if I were single now, I wouldn't be interested in a partner who would consider guns a deal breaker. But I hear the market is tough right now. Maybe the delivery is more important than the timing: it isn't a confession or something that you are divulging. It's just a facet of your personality and interests. I would want to find out if it was going to be a deal breaker BEFORE investing a bunch of time in the relationship, but I tend toward word vomit (to a fault).
In the non-dating world, has anyone been socially shut out after mentioning that they have guns/shoot? As a recent convert I enthuse about my activities to anyone who will listen and so far the response has been overwhelmingly positive. The people who disapprove (I can tell by their body language) don't actually say anything in front of my face. They're probably saying "well it's more interesting than her scrap-booking phase".
What I am dealing with is closer to home; being treated as slightly foolish for intending to carry (and taking a gun with me on a road trip for the first time! Woot!) Fortunately I am used to feeling a bit foolish, so I just soldier on.
In the non-dating world, has anyone been socially shut out after mentioning that they have guns/shoot? As a recent convert I enthuse about my activities to anyone who will listen and so far the response has been overwhelmingly positive. The people who disapprove (I can tell by their body language) don't actually say anything in front of my face. They're probably saying "well it's more interesting than her scrap-booking phase".
What I am dealing with is closer to home; being treated as slightly foolish for intending to carry (and taking a gun with me on a road trip for the first time! Woot!) Fortunately I am used to feeling a bit foolish, so I just soldier on.