If you have problems loading an autoloader you won't fare much better with a DA revolver one handed. At least I hope you don't plan on loading it quickly.
Believe it or not a Single Action, if you can lay it on a table or bench is easier to unload and reload one handed.
The problem with a DA revolver is loading it with it lying on it's side. Keeping the cylinder open may require a block of some sort to keep the cylinder open for loading.
It can be done, it just takes practice and patience.
All the recommendations above are pretty much what I was going to say. If you're on a limited budget I would look at a good used S&W or Ruger.