Confessions of a Yankee...or why I love the South

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As I sit here waxing poetic, I feel the need to confess. Not for any wrongdoing or crime, but simply to express my state of mind. It's been over twelve years that I have called the "Golden State" of California my home. And in many ways there are treasures here beyond measure. I met my wife here, bought an overpriced home, and enjoy the joy of my two children. The weather is beautiful most of the year. I live driving distance from one of the highest tech areas (which employs me) and also driving distance from gorgous mountains and national forrest. But it is not without it faults for sure. It's stance on the second amendment right of it's citizens it attrocious. And even though many rural Californian's are avid hunters and sportsmen, the policies of the entire state are generally dictated by the few but highly populated areas such as the SF Bay area, Los Angles and it surrrounding areas, San Diego, etc. Those of us who enjoy the shooting sports do it in private and do our best to convince those around us that guns are not the evil they are portrayed to be rather they are simply a tool and should be treated appropriately. But still in many ways I love California. But it is not the south.

I moved to California from the suburbs of New Orleans. I was not a native of Louisianna. I spent most my life growing up in the mid-west. But probably to the day I die I will always think of Louisiana as my home. Never have I been welcomed as openly without thought or care about my background as I was there. It was a beautiful state and a dreary state and yet it always felt warm and timeless. It was a land of sportsmen, a land were the concept of self dependence had not been lost, and yet everyone I knew looked out for each other. I barely speak to my neighbors here in Cali, even though our houses are close enough that I doubt there are many secrets among us. In New Orleans there wasn't a neighbor on the street how wouldn't invite you in for a beer regardless of whether it was the first time you had laid eyes on them.

Californian's will boast about the beauty and prestige of the California wine country. And indeed they are beautiful and they produce some excellent wines. But only in the south can you find whiskey distilleries which produce bourbons which have aged longer than many California wineries have been in existance.

Perhaps I look back with vision distorted by fond memories, but I still feel that part of my heart will always long to be a son of the south.
 
Where were you in New Orleans? I lived in Algiers for three years. Went to school at Edna Karr Magnet and New Orleans School for Science and Math (near City Park). I like not having the hassle of big cities, but I miss NOLA. Lots of great fishing in that area, too. Great place to hang out is O'Flaherty's Irish Pub on Tulouse St...sorry, getting all sentimental.

The south rules.:cool:

Edited to add: You are correct about the neighbors. Anytime someone had a crawfish or crab boil, everyone showed up for it. :D
 
I moved to Louisiana from South Africa, not by my own choice, but as dictated by the needs of the church. I've had no reason to regret it, and plenty of reasons to be thankful! Apart from the great food and wonderful people, it's also one of the most gun-friendly States in the Union - which is icing on the cake! :D
 
Nice to hear folks saying good things about my home :)

I've lived all of my life in the suburbs of New Orleans (Metairie, Kenner, St. Rose). The thing about the neighbors is, for the most part, true. I don't know if it's a southern thing or a New Orleans thing but most people are freindly and polite, or they try and fake it at least. Everyone you make eye contact with gets at least a "nod of the head" greeting or a hello, good morning/afternoon, etc.

When in other cities, I either get dirty looks or amazed smiles when I do this (it's an automatic thing, I can't help it :) )

Gun laws are somewhere between easy to deal with and invisible. Shall issue CCW, no waiting period, no "per month" restrictions.

Too many left wingers uptown, but you can't have everything.

Dave
 
*nudge*

pax wanders through and muses to herself ... "What a friendly little thread. Sure hope most posters stick in a word or two that is gun-related so that I can close one eye, squint, and pretend it's on topic..."

pax
 
*oomph...nudged*

Well this Southern Boy knew all about BBQ guns. After a shoot I wasn't sure about, "peel'em and eat'em guns" , blackened redfish guns", Shrimp gumbo guns" and "crawfish guns"... No worry, My BBQ gun worked - I fit in just fine :D

Now I was relieved that in my home state , which is adjacent to LA that is it proper etiquette in LA as well to ...well if the doves decide to crash the party - shoot them. We do that if we are having a BBQ . Ahh Doves Cajun style is mighty good eatin'.

I didn't even have a problem with certain "dialects"... Just like a BBQ...mouth full can't understand anyone anyway...just reach for what you want...or point. :D
 
You grew up in the Midwest, then moved to New Orleans, then CA.
Where does the Yankee come into it? Not trying to flame you, just curious.

At this point I could never move somewhere that would not allow me to take ALL of my firearms with me.
 
I grew up in Buffalo, NY, and went to college in Canada. I returned to Buffalo in 1980, and later that year I moved to Houston. I knew in about 30 days that moving back up North for me wasn't ever gonna happen. As I've told my sister, "Once Mom and Dad have passed away, I'll have no reason at all to come back here (any state that would have Hilary Clinton as a Senator, has nothing I want)."

I married a small-town West Texas girl, and all our three children were born in Texas. All have experienced shooting, to some degree, and are pretty good at it. Hopefully, long after I die, someone will look at my grave and say "There he is...just another dead Texan." That would be perfectly fine with me.
 
Chipperman wrote :"You grew up in the Midwest, then moved to New Orleans, then CA. Where does the Yankee come into it? Not trying to flame you, just curious."


You mean there is some portion of the Midwest that ain't Yankee ??
:neener:
 
I'm originally from NE Wisconsin, my wife is from upstate NY.

We feel the same way. We're in KY/TN right now, but we love life south of the Mason-Dixon line.

ANM
 
Just chiming in as another guy from the suburbs of New Orleans. I've lived between New Orleans and Baton Rouge for most of my life. The South is definitely a nice place to be. :)
 
Well as I have said before,I miss Oklahoma.Lived in the "Buckle of the Bible Belt"(Tulsa).Great people,good hunting,GREAT gun clubs.Moving to Kansas reminds me some of back east but what can ya expect from a state founded by busy bodies from Massachusetts.....it just ain't the South.
 
"There he is...just another dead Texan." That would be perfectly fine with me.

Me too man, me too.

There are several southern states that were I to end up buried there and mistaken for the "genuine articule" would be just fine with me. That western NC accent will get you busted most places however.


S-
 
Well this is the first chance I've had to check back in on my thread here. I'm glad to see that there are many like minded individuals and those that just plain love where they live.

New Orleans always seemed to me to have the most appropriate attitudes about drinking, shooting and living. The bottom line for all of the above is "Be an adult about it, but don't that stop you from having fun."

My wife will never understand were I'm coming from when I talk about the South, but to be fair she has no experience being born and raised in the California Bay Area. The one true problem with this area, is that there is an unstated law against claiming that any other place to live might even be remotely better. The other problem is that Californian's love to pat themselves on the back for being "trend setters" regardless of how silly or ill concieved the trend actually is.
 
The other problem is that Californian's love to pat themselves on the back for being "trend setters" regardless of how silly or ill concieved the trend actually is.
Accurately stated. And the reason for most of those trends is their "enlightened" attitudes, in a never ending quest to create a socialist utopia. Like I told one guy I know from California (as we were discussing gun ownership, concealed carry, and general gun rights in our respective states) when he said "Well, you sure wouldn't be able to do that in California." "Yeah I know," I said. "But the legislators in Texas know the citizens of our state can be trusted with firearms!" :neener: They're sooooo enlightened. Goobers.
 
Well SpeedRacer2002,the irony in my case is that I'm a Native Californian,going back a couple of generations on my mother's side, and you won't catch me back there except for funerals.I've lived as far west as Oahu and as far east as NY but the most welcome I ever felt was when we lived in Oklahoma.My brother lives in Sac and his is the more typical Calif.mindset but he sure had fun shooting in my backyard here in the "sticks"
Hey duckapehero,you guys need to come back to Lawrence and THIS time stay sober.;)
 
Sorry, can't help ya this time. Us Confederate Missourians are having enough trouble dealing with the Yankees that have taken over St Louis and Kansas City.
 
dont blame the socialism in KC and STL on yankess :D
there are socialist midwesterners and there are conservative midwesterners..........i AM one of the later, and i think the former need to move where the other socialists are.....say, Europe
 
You grew up in the Midwest, then moved to New Orleans, then CA.
Where does the Yankee come into it?
Anyone not from the south is a Yank, even if the state they now reside in was not in the union at the time, just ask a southerner. When I lived in the NO area and worked on the West Bank building oil rigs, I was a no good Yank POS for coming there and taking a southern mans job. Perhaps its only the blue collar class that still has an axe to grind.

As stated above, there are many nice attributes to La. I did buy a 1911 there for an awesome price and didn't have to wait at all. The best food is served in La. Man can they cook!
 
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