Carry at home and open (while in the house)
I carry my .38 snub-nose revolver in my pancake holster at 4:00 when in my home, and carry it open as I usually take my cover garment off when in the comfort of my own surroundings.
As far as the LEO goes, I've never given one reason to knock on my door, but most of the local officers here know me and know I work in the same field as them, just a different (and usually harsher) jurisdiction. They also know I carry concealed and have a greater respect from them for doing so.
As far as visitors go, those friends and family who visit me know I am almost ALWAYS armed. Anyone who comes into my home and is uncomfortable by the sight of my weapon on my hip is:
A) someone I probably don't want in my home in the first place. In my town, where many of the townsfolk have a gun in the home or carry it (it used to be a law here that all homeowners had to be gun owners as well until the law was officially removed in 1995. I'm sure they stopped enforcing it long before that though), someone stopping by who is bothered by the presence of my weapon is someone I need to be suspicious about.
B) more than welcome to turn around and go back out the door they came in.
If however, you are in the home of another or a public establishment which strictly forbids you to carry a firearm (workplaces and some businesses), you have no choice but to respect their wishes. That is not only moral common sense, in some areas IT'S THE LAW!
If your dad is giving you grief in your own dwelling, well then option B above should be made clear to him. If he persists that you not carry when he is in your home (I know, family comes first but..... :banghead: .....second to the way I live MY life in MY home) then (maybe more politely than this) simply say to him, "
" and any other choice words (PC or not PC) you can express yourself clearly with.
Sorry, maybe that's a little harsh. If you ever met my family though, harsh is sometimes the only thing they tend to understand, since they speak it so well.
-MW